Depends on the girl if I just met her and dont know her well and dont really care about her I'll be blunt..No dont hurt nobody. And if she easy she'll eventually cave in. But if she my girl and she dont offer I will either give it to her first to see if she will reciprocate or just talk to her about it and...if nuthin else works play the "You dont love me, card" It most all the time works.
If it's a girl you feeling, go head and eat her out and spin yo **** round to her head to a 69. Arch your weight off of her and let your tongue drop into the cooch. She'll reach up and try to grab that mug and go at it.
That ****definetly do work....in my case she was riding the face and slowly but surely she was laying on me and it was right there in her face...and the rest is history....and this was with a female who said she would NEVER do it