^Sweety, you can't make nobody love someone they ain't attracted to. If a lot of you guys grow so confidence and stop trying to analyze every damn thing you might find a girl.
And our entire point(well at least mine) is that you are taking what the women say literally and not looking at what they really mean.
"There are no good men left, just dawgs"(just an ex.)-Any random woman
All I've been trying to state to you is that the women do not literally mean that ALL men are dawgs and that's all that left, they simply mean that they can't find one to suit there tastes. Your post seemed to be implying that you think that all women(or a good majority at least) seem to think that there are NO good women left..when you are completely mistakening where they are coming from.
Let me try one more example...
Let's say that I can choose between 3 girls(let's give them names..umm, Tasha, Ashley, and Jennifer). Tasha and Ashley are good women, but they are dark skinned and very flirtacious while Jennifer is light skinned and only interested in her man(which is more of my type). Just because Jennifer is more of my type and I choose to be with her doesn't mean that I don't recognize that they are good woemn it's just not their type...
Listen, what I'm trying to say is that I think you are misunderstanding what women are REALLY saying when they say there is no good men left...But I'm through with this topic unless you have something reasonable to say because you don't seem capable of carrying on an intelligent conversation without becoming a smartazz...
Megan We have to stop this arguing with him....because all he's doing is talking right from his **** :arrow:
As women we must stop feeding into this bullshyt and wasting our fingers typing why what he's saying is NOTHING but BULLSHYT...
I would like to say Titus has the 3rd grade syndrome.....
When a boy likes you he picks on you....because he doesnt know any better...when all he has to say is Megan, Jade, Tiphani...I really want to get together with you...I'm sorry i've been doing all this bullshyt..but i didnt have a better way to come at u :roll:
I thought I was a woman scorn...but now i see...your worse then me Titus. At least i can ADMIT my problem....that's the FIRST STEP...
I know it's good men out there..and my definition of a GOOD man is one who feels me completely and doesnt make me second guess anything. Thats all I need, and so far it hasnt happen. Of course I've ran across a select few in which i could've settled down with..but my fear of commitment has caused me not too
As human's...human's who try to make relationships we are all going to FUCCK up at one point or another..and thats when u learn from your damn mistakes..pick your heart back up..and in time you move on until you find the next person who makes your heard skip a beat...
I'm sorry if im repeating something that has already been said..or if I'm not really answering the question...but i refuse to read Titus' bullshyt about women..and I thought Riley was bad....you have problems :roll:
So then the overall consensus is that there isn't a shortage of good black men. There's a shortage of the black men that each and every one of you percieve to be good or that you can click with. :?
I think Neo has said the most truth here so far...
All thats been said, besides what he said, i basically a geographical statement of whos around you. Some places dont "breed" good men because they figure they dont have to, like Atlanta for example.
My pastor overheard a mother telling her son to pick up after his self and be clean because one day a Woman might want to take care of him! Just because there are a rising number of older women wanting younger men, it doesnt make it right for any man to be "taken care of". Its not what we were put here for.
Off that tip, none of us can really discuss true ratios just because we havent met Everyone. I know it might be a trend that college campuses are setting, but personally I cant make the excuse that I havent found a good woman. I can say that the good women I've found are taken or dont want me and Im not mad at it. Some women meet good men all the time and either get with him or ignore him.
An example being me. Had I not been on this site I probably never would have met Whitney and vice versa. We were talkin about if I wasnt on the site would she still have given me the time of day.
Hell naw. :arrow:
Im not saying this is for every man, but a lot of the black males I run into are how can we say.......no where near what i need in my life. I consider myself and an attractive, intelligent, and honest person. Yet I still meet a lot of dudes that once they get the idea that i dont throw p*ssy out like candy at a parade they are quick to bounce out .Also a lot of em ar enot goal orientied. How do u expect me to take u seriously if im out here bustin my **** tryna get an education, and u live at ya mom's house, no job, no car, no ambition, but yet u wanna take me out ????
But i must say even after all of my pitfalls i still belive that there are decent black men out there just waitin and willin to satisfy both my emotional/physical needs... i just have to be patient and let em come to me :wink:
Im not saying this is for every man, but a lot of the black males I run into are how can we say.......no where near what i need in my life. I consider myself and an attractive, intelligent, and honest person. Yet I still meet a lot of dudes that once they get the idea that i dont throw p*ssy out like candy at a parade they are quick to bounce out .Also a lot of em ar enot goal orientied. How do u expect me to take u seriously if im out here bustin my **** tryna get an education, and u live at ya mom's house, no job, no car, no ambition, but yet u wanna take me out ????
But i must say even after all of my pitfalls i still belive that there are decent black men out there just waitin and willin to satisfy both my emotional/physical needs... i just have to be patient and let em come to me :wink:
Where on earth are you lookin for dudes? At a high school? :?
Im not saying this is for every man, but a lot of the black males I run into are how can we say.......no where near what i need in my life. I consider myself and an attractive, intelligent, and honest person. Yet I still meet a lot of dudes that once they get the idea that i dont throw p*ssy out like candy at a parade they are quick to bounce out .Also a lot of em ar enot goal orientied. How do u expect me to take u seriously if im out here bustin my **** tryna get an education, and u live at ya mom's house, no job, no car, no ambition, but yet u wanna take me out ????
But i must say even after all of my pitfalls i still belive that there are decent black men out there just waitin and willin to satisfy both my emotional/physical needs... i just have to be patient and let em come to me :wink:
You are a bit pessimistic. Then again, she did describe a few 15 year olds...
Where on earth are you lookin for dudes? At a high school? :?
Im not saying this is for every man, but a lot of the black males I run into are how can we say.......no where near what i need in my life. I consider myself and an attractive, intelligent, and honest person. Yet I still meet a lot of dudes that once they get the idea that i dont throw p*ssy out like candy at a parade they are quick to bounce out .Also a lot of em ar enot goal orientied. How do u expect me to take u seriously if im out here bustin my **** tryna get an education, and u live at ya mom's house, no job, no car, no ambition, but yet u wanna take me out ????
But i must say even after all of my pitfalls i still belive that there are decent black men out there just waitin and willin to satisfy both my emotional/physical needs... i just have to be patient and let em come to me :wink:
Where on earth are you lookin for dudes? At a high school? :?
*Myranda shakes her head* so sad that u dont analyze the black male population and actually see how many dont have jobs, cars , goals, and what not. U aint a female so i suppose u wouldnt understand :roll:
Im not saying this is for every man, but a lot of the black males I run into are how can we say.......no where near what i need in my life. I consider myself and an attractive, intelligent, and honest person. Yet I still meet a lot of dudes that once they get the idea that i dont throw p*ssy out like candy at a parade they are quick to bounce out .Also a lot of em ar enot goal orientied. How do u expect me to take u seriously if im out here bustin my **** tryna get an education, and u live at ya mom's house, no job, no car, no ambition, but yet u wanna take me out ????
But i must say even after all of my pitfalls i still belive that there are decent black men out there just waitin and willin to satisfy both my emotional/physical needs... i just have to be patient and let em come to me :wink:
Where on earth are you lookin for dudes? At a high school? :?
*Myranda shakes her head* so sad that u dont analyze the black male population and actually see how many dont have jobs, cars , goals, and what not. U aint a female so i suppose u wouldnt understand :roll:
That is not just limited to males. There are a lot of females that are doing the exact same thing :arrow:
Im not saying this is for every man, but a lot of the black males I run into are how can we say.......no where near what i need in my life. I consider myself and an attractive, intelligent, and honest person. Yet I still meet a lot of dudes that once they get the idea that i dont throw p*ssy out like candy at a parade they are quick to bounce out .Also a lot of em ar enot goal orientied. How do u expect me to take u seriously if im out here bustin my **** tryna get an education, and u live at ya mom's house, no job, no car, no ambition, but yet u wanna take me out ????
But i must say even after all of my pitfalls i still belive that there are decent black men out there just waitin and willin to satisfy both my emotional/physical needs... i just have to be patient and let em come to me :wink:
Where on earth are you lookin for dudes? At a high school? :?
*Myranda shakes her head* so sad that u dont analyze the black male population and actually see how many dont have jobs, cars , goals, and what not. U aint a female so i suppose u wouldnt understand :roll:
That is not just limited to males. There are a lot of females that are doing the exact same thing :arrow:
That is true but we are not talking about females right now... just males :wink:
