Choose your lover by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense, and choosing your lover by their color is unthinkable.
I've often thought about if I would date outside of my race, and I conclude that I would. If he respects me and loves me regardless of all my flaws, why not. If he's what God send me then thats who I will be with.
I'm the product of a bi-racial marriage....My pops is Black and my mom is from the Philippines. So, obviously I don't think anything is wrong with dating outside the race. As long as there is a connection between the two parties involved, I say go for it.
I think I would if the person was nice but I don't know cause when in heated arguments things slip out and you be like is that what you really think? One dude asked me and I was like I dont't know plus he was sitting there talking about all these girls he fukked I was like naww.
Natalie
I would prefer not to date outside my race, because I would want my children to have a sense of hertiage and history. But then again brothers nowadays don't know how to act right, and I need to be with somebody who is going to treat me the way that I need to be treated. And i an't gonna lie, it is a slap in the face when you do see a brotha with a non-black female because you (I personally)feel as though it's a slap in the face to the bond that kept the black race together during our struggling times. And please people when you do make a statement on why you would date outside your race, please don't come up with some stupid **** answer like "Their **** is big" or "I want my kid to have good hair" That's just plain ignorant. :roll:
well i have great hair and i am far from shallow. it takes more than looks to impress me personally. their are plenty of good brothers around who take responsiblity for their actions and have good heads on their shoulders. some guys might dog a lady out but not all. most of the guys who do dog woman out do it because they were hurt by that one girl they were really feeling and do not want to set them selves up for rejection or hurt again. and the same goes for the females out there who get played by the guys they really like. so i would personally say do whatever makes you happy, but dont have the thought that only white people can please you, or black people are superior, or peurto ricans care more. you get what I'm saying. people are people and we are all human and subject to sin, error, mistakes, and bad judgement.
