I'm in the same shoes as you KrystleReppin, I have no idea what a sorority is, what it's for or what they do. But I'm going to join one anyway and hopefully I'll find out then. The reason why the people that posted above me didn't tell you anything is because all sororties have some type of thing where they have to keep it secret, but that's just what I've been hearing, I have no idea if it's true.
They are not clubs that you join. There is so much wrong with this post. Even if they were clubs, why would you join a club you dont know anything about??
laidbackfella: Naw, i don't know if i'm gonna always be that thorough. I can tell when it's needed and when folks are just being downright lazy. She's still in HS, so i was givin her the benefit of the doubt.
I'm skeptical of everyone on the internet.
If you can type in the question on anyone's dot.com then you are CAPABLE of searching and finding out your own answers.
Whether you do it or not is on you.
How many questions did you post in forums asking Greek questions before you crossed?
U already know that i never really posted in the greek forum until after i crossed. But that was mainly becuz i was a regular on this board and didn't want folkz gettin suspicious. Not to mention, i also knew that HU people visited the board (including some who know me...kenyaeyez and inferno can vouch for that). I've always been real big on discretion, so that was a personal choice of mine. Now, i could have been a lil slicker and posted greek questions under another sn, but i didn't think all of that was necessary. I could easily come to the forum and read past threads and get a feel for certain answers that i needed.
My situation may not be the same as this young lady's tho. I was a lil more educated on greek life. And i can understand where u are coming from laid back, becuz no...i don't believe that information should always be spoon fed. I didn't have any greeks in my fam and i learned things along the way. But sometimes it's just nice to have at least one person there who doesn't mind helpin u out.
U already know that i never really posted in the greek forum until after i crossed. But that was mainly becuz i was a regular on this board and didn't want folkz gettin suspicious. Not to mention, i also knew that HU people visited the board (including some who know me...kenyaeyez and inferno can vouch for that). I've always been real big on discretion, so that was a personal choice of mine. Now, i could have been a lil slicker and posted greek questions under another sn, but i didn't think all of that was necessary. I could easily come to the forum and read past threads and get a feel for certain answers that i needed.
My situation may not be the same as this young lady's tho. I was a lil more educated on greek life. And i can understand where u are coming from laid back, becuz no...i don't believe that information should always be spoon fed. I didn't have any greeks in my fam and i learned things along the way. But sometimes it's just nice to have at least one person there who doesn't mind helpin u out.
I'm in the same shoes as you KrystleReppin, I have no idea what a sorority is, what it's for or what they do. But I'm going to join one anyway and hopefully I'll find out then. The reason why the people that posted above me didn't tell you anything is because all sororties have some type of thing where they have to keep it secret, but that's just what I've been hearing, I have no idea if it's true.
^thats wassup! i like you handled the situation and thoroughly helped and guided her to where she should look...insteada bein like the previous posters.