lol u r never anything less than a riot to me :lol:
demmeri wrote:
but i dunno if they do something major, stealing, lying, disrepecting me or their mother (stacy dash...or chick that can do a split...or white girl)...they're gonna get it...
*smh*as for everything else you said....
I definitely do agree that physical discipline HAS to exist in the home.....not physical abuse....physical discipline....
Because like you said, we've seen what lack thereof....has done for the children of today....not good....not good at all...
And particularly for the generations that are yet to be....they gonna be some lil' BAD @$$es (even worse than be4), we all know this.....unless we rear them like most of us were reared....
However...
I don't agree with what you said about you being the only disciplinarian....
I've known many people who were disciplined physically by either both parents...or just their mothers....and they ended up coming out just fine....
I can't remember where I heard this....but there was a mother who allowed that to happen in her home....like, the whole time her children were growing up, she always let the father get 'em when he'd get home.....and somewhere along the line, she felt she was no longer respected by the children....'cause they thought they could get away with a whole lot more around mama....and knew BETTER, when it came to daddy.....
She felt they didn't have for her that same respect for a parent that a child is supposed to have....that they had for their father...
And I'm not havin' that....
Knowing me, it'll probably be hard to physically discipline my children, lol...but....I know you gotta do what you gotta do.....and okay, maybe my husband can be the primary disciplinarian....hmmm, I don't know....but I want to receive the same respect from them as he receives....
and finally, i'm gonna REALLY need for you to STOP BLAMING EVERY DAMN THING ON ****!! i've refrained from saying this, but damn HALF the stuff you say aren't even because of ****...they're because of your little conservative buddies....or both....
you're hilarious....
and finally, i'm gonna REALLY need for you to STOP BLAMING EVERY DAMN THING ON ****!! i've refrained from saying this, but damn HALF the stuff you say aren't even because of ****...they're because of your little conservative buddies....or both....
you're hilarious....
it is the **** though...what kind of society do you think they have over there in europe?
the **** don't want us to beat our kids because they think it's **** cruel punishment and whatnot... 8-)
