If you two aren't doing anything wrong, than you are not wrong. BUT I do understand why she would be skeptical about the whole situation. I mean you two were romantically involved. She is a little silly for staying with the guy, but it is her man. If I were you I would just leave him alone.
^I don't think there's anything dumb about being friends with dude. I can see if I was still "talking" with him.
Im saying... the dude played you... and its like you came running back to the dude. I couldn't do something like that out of pure self-respect. Its like you keep saying he played his girl, but he played you too.
Yeah, he lied to me but I didn't "run back" to him. We just talk on a friendship level, when we do talk cause it's not that often.
This guy didn't love you, he wasn't trying to have a relationship with you, he just wanted you for a fukk buddy.
...and accomplished what he wanted and had her, if megan was Kentucky fried chicken, homeboi would've got all white meat PLUS the biscuit.
^I don't think there's anything dumb about being friends with dude. I can see if I was still "talking" with him.
Im saying... the dude played you... and its like you came running back to the dude. I couldn't do something like that out of pure self-respect. Its like you keep saying he played his girl, but he played you too.
Yeah, he lied to me but I didn't "run back" to him. We just talk on a friendship level, when we do talk cause it's not that often.
But Megan.. why this guy have any of your respect right now? The thought of a guy cheating on his fiance doesn't disgust you?
This guy didn't love you, he wasn't trying to have a relationship with you, he just wanted you for a fukk buddy. He's still with his girl aint he? This **** must be on himself so hard right now to think that he cheated with a girl, while having a fiance, the girl found out about the fiance, and still calls him. This guy is pimpin the fukk out you Megan. No bullshyt.
REAL TALK.
Sorry guys maturity and reason went that way --->
We are all alone here..
I agree with y'all it's just going to take her being in the other womans shoes to fully feel what's being said. Megan even though yall only talk on a friendship level you are still dealing with someone who has no character. Just like it's easy for you to see where old girl needs to cut ties...others see the same about you. No matter how inconsistent the conversation. Anything gives that lil nicca hope.
And like I told Chad in IM, he calls me and she told me today that she saw where he had called me like two days ago. So she was upset that he calls me not that I call him. I don't even call him that often.
I guess I didn't make it clear that me and dude don't even talk that much. But when we do, it's a cordial conversation.
That's why I guess I was kinda upset that she calls me. I could see I still talked to him on a daily basis and we were together, then I could understand her calling me.
I understand trying to make things work, but for how long do you sit around and continue to let a guy play you. After 13 years of being in a relationship you'd think he truly wants to be with her, but if thats so then why cheat constantly. Either he should be with only her or not.
WHAT!?!?! is me, chad, and sed from another fukkin planet? HER relationship with her boyfriend has NOTHING to do with Megan's interference in the relationship.
naw yall not, bird of the same feather flock together, in other words this girl a hoe too basically.
Like I said before. Personally I would have stopped talking to him altogether, b/c I hate liars and I'm not the one to try and get between anyone. If you can lie to me once, you'll lie again. Point blank. I'm not gonna stay around like a fool! If Megan chooses to talk to dude thats on her...
Now :arrow: I admit I was wrong for callin that female dumb at first, b/c its not my place to judge her actions. I don't know her like that and like someone else said she's not here to defend herself. I just think that you can only hold on to a guy and put up with such actions as cheating for so long before its just time for you to let it go and move on.
I honestly think you both are wrong. The dude been with this girl for 13 years and engaged to her while cheating with you and you not aware of this. You find out he's been lying to you and everything else. Yea you got over it, but its totally inappropriate for you to still keep ties with dude even if it is on a friend level. ESPECIALLY considering he is still with the same woman. It would be different if she broke up with him, and you forgave him and became cordial friends. But You cant blame her for being skeptical of the 2 of you. The same girl he was cheating on her with has magically become " just a friend. " Maybe the whole thing is very innocent but it does look extremely suspect, looking on the outside it. I just think its bad for business for you to even talk to him as a friend, and on the phone after everything that has went down between the three of you.
Just when I had lost all hope for Generation Yers, you guys post this. Thanks a lot, you've renewed my belief in common sense and hope for the future.
That being said, "Co-muh-f'n - sign."
I honestly think you both are wrong. The dude been with this girl for 13 years and engaged to her while cheating with you and you not aware of this. You find out he's been lying to you and everything else. Yea you got over it, but its totally inappropriate for you to still keep ties with dude even if it is on a friend level. ESPECIALLY considering he is still with the same woman. It would be different if she broke up with him, and you forgave him and became cordial friends. But You cant blame her for being skeptical of the 2 of you. The same girl he was cheating on her with has magically become " just a friend. " Maybe the whole thing is very innocent but it does look extremely suspect, looking on the outside it. I just think its bad for business for you to even talk to him as a friend, and on the phone after everything that has went down between the three of you.
Just when I had lost all hope for Generation Yers, you guys post this. Thanks a lot, you've renewed my belief in common sense and hope for the future.
That being said, "Co-muh-f'n - sign."
I honestly think you both are wrong. The dude been with this girl for 13 years and engaged to her while cheating with you and you not aware of this. You find out he's been lying to you and everything else. Yea you got over it, but its totally inappropriate for you to still keep ties with dude even if it is on a friend level. ESPECIALLY considering he is still with the same woman. It would be different if she broke up with him, and you forgave him and became cordial friends. But You cant blame her for being skeptical of the 2 of you. The same girl he was cheating on her with has magically become " just a friend. " Maybe the whole thing is very innocent but it does look extremely suspect, looking on the outside it. I just think its bad for business for you to even talk to him as a friend, and on the phone after everything that has went down between the three of you.
Just when I had lost all hope for Generation Yers, you guys post this. Thanks a lot, you've renewed my belief in common sense and hope for the future.
That being said, "Co-muh-f'n - sign."
:???: I don't understand how Megan is wrong in this situation. Maybe she is a little silly for remaining friends with the guy, but not wrong. The same goes with the other gal. The guy is the only one in the wrong. He is the one who cheated.
