I know I am quite knowledgable about black greek organizations (among other things). But when do you think a non-member has overstepped their boundaries. I've been to a web site that was composed of mainly west coast greeks and I know that many of the comments stated by non-members in this forum wouldn't fly over their (mine included). I just wanted to know, aside from perping, when do you think a non-greek has overstepped the boundaries?
:arrow: My best friend is DST; some chic walked up to one of her sorors and said "hey soror, I mean future soror!" Said it like it was nothing! LOL@ her boldness but um, you guessed it she will never have those for being so bold, at least not undergrad.
:arrow: Another incident: after a show we had stepped in, one of my DST friends over-heard this chic perping. She pointed at us and said "there go my sorors". You guessed it, perping like crazy, and she was caught perpin again *smh*. She will never have these cause some of the sophomore sorors, who will more than likely be the next ones to bring over a line, have it in for her. What you say can fuc** you up, that's why they always say 'use discretion ladies and gents' :wink:
:arrow: Another example; I was conversing with this chic who has a family full of sorors. She was blabbing on and on about how if she wanted to be a soror it would be nothing for her to get in, blah blah blah. She didn't know I was AKA, so she just blabbed away all her negative perceptions of AKAs but ironically added that she would still pledge it anyway because all the women in her fam are sorors and that the ones on her campus "get down" *smh!* Needless to say I kindly passed the word on to the chapter on her campus everything she'd said about us :wink: it was the least I could do
Last but certainly not least and I say this loosely: Just because your good friend is a member of an org that you are interested in, it doesn't mean you WILL become one :wink: I know of too many chics who got their feelings hurt so bad because they thought they had a free pass into a particular org because their "homegirl" was a member of the org. Now don't get me wrong, it may indeed help you, but do not think that just because you know someone in the org, you have a free pass. That is all folks
I'll tell u when u've gone TOO FAR. When u just talking to someone who is non-greek and u say "yeah... I came through SPR 04...#11, such and such a chapter" and u just happen to be talking to a GOOD friend of that lines DP!! and so it gets back to that person that the friend was talking #11 about coming through her Chapter and it comes to light that there were only 10 girls on the line!!
All in all.... if that person is reading this right now.... there is only room for ONE TAIL DOG to MY line and that ONE is ME!!
Zeta Alpha.... the one and ONLY #10...SPR 04!
Get em Soror!!! Call me and your other 16 LB's when yall gonna squad up on dat @$$...I'll bring the camera it could a PHAmily gathering
*running next door to The ZPBS House yelling "BLU & WHITE Squad Up!!!"*
I dont have my letters yet but I do know that discreation is a must. My bestfriend is greek and one thing she says that if any lady wants to be apart of her organization....one must exemplify principles of good stature,etc. I truly believe if you do step to a member of any organization in a respectful manner; they will give up the upmost respect. :lol:
Yet? :roll: You don't have your letters yet, huh? Talk about being overly confident. That statement alone could attract a beatdown. Remember that nothing is guaranteed. Statements like that are often considered to be poor etiquette for a hopeful.
I know I am quite knowledgable about black greek organizations (among other things). But when do you think a non-member has overstepped their boundaries. I've been to a web site that was composed of mainly west coast greeks and I know that many of the comments stated by non-members in this forum wouldn't fly over their (mine included). I just wanted to know, aside from perping, when do you think a non-greek has overstepped the boundaries?
Sometimes, posting topics such as this one could be considered as "overstepping your boundaries"...just a thought 8)
