Why do Ladies say, "I have more guy friends than girls'

52 replies · 28084 views · Started by KärolinaPläyboy · Jul 2004
KärolinaPläyboy charlotte, NC
I ALWAYS hear girls saying that they have more guy friends than girls. Everytime I hear it, I can't help but to think, (even 4 a split second) that she's giving it up to alot of guys,etc. Why do girls not have closer relationships with their own gender? more importantly, why do we want to know that you have more males in your life than females??
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Sweet_Girl · Aug 2004
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It is like this, I feel that it is nothing wrong with having more male friends than female if you choose to do that than that is your choice. Just because a person says they have more male friends than females does not mean they do not like talking to females as a whole it's just means they get along more. Like I said I personally have more male friends and I just get along with them more but I also have my circle of female friends too. In many cases though for what ever reason sometimes it is harder to talk to some females because in reality they do change up on you. All I know is every person is different and we experience different things and it doesn't mean that something is wrong with a person just because they choose to talk to guys more than girls.
dazzlin' · Aug 2004
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I chose to hang out with guys because no matter how close you are to a female they still see you as competition. They don't seem to understand that I don't want they man, What they wearing is cool for them but I don't want to steal they style and that a friend that would gossip about them behind they back ain't a real friend. Guys kinda accept things at face value and keep movin'. I've never been with a group of guys and they start talkin' about some "nicca I can't stand yo fake self. you really think you fine or somethin'?" Guys be like "You wanna hang. A'ight that's cool." That stuff start from when you little. All the cliques and mess. Girls be like "You can't be my friend and her friend at the same time." Guys be tryin' to find more people so they can football or something. It's just less complicated with guys.
· Aug 2004
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HamptonBeauty_08 wrote:
I... you can usually tell who's real and who's not after a couple of conversations. In my experiences, it's kind of hard to get hurt by a female...
I pretty much agree, surround urself w/ females u can trust n there won't be ne problems...if u around 'shady' females, don't be surprised when u get burnt, you already knew what was go'n down. Personally I have more girl friends than guy friends b/c I relate to them on a different level, I have two really close best-guy-friends, n all them other ni99as is just associates...but my GURLS??!!...who else i'ma hit tha club wit??...we roll deep!!!
· Aug 2004
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R-Tistic · Aug 2004
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All of the responses are interesting. I just wonder, somewhat like what Kenyafeelme was sayin, since females generally carry these characteristics, would you agree or admit that you have at times shown these same negative qualities? I have heard females say things like "I don't like females because they are shady." And then turn around sayin things like "I know that I was shady towards her" or "I know how I am with other females and they are probably the same way about me." And if you feel you don't carry these characteristics, do you feel that you attract friends that are the same as you? Or do you still think that you may end up with female friends that have the typical problems?
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· Aug 2004
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I just think the biggest problem here is that females feel threatened by one another. Hence all the "shadiness", back-****, etc.
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mzballplaya · Aug 2004
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are ya!?!? are ya!?!? are ya!?!? :? :roll: :arrow:
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Cadillac-On-Four-Flats · Aug 2004
#48 Reply
no but thanks for asking
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· Aug 2004
#49 Reply
Well at first I used to wonder the same thing but years later after a whole lot of backbiting and criticizing and jealousy, I now know why we females say that ...because I can say it too!! Girls can be b*****s :twisted: and we like our guy friends to know we have other guyfriends to let them know that we do know how to understand guys and hang out with them, u know! :idea: :wink:
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· Aug 2004
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I have alot of guy friends, but that's cuz alot of the gurls where I went to school were messy. I'm not for all that BS. I have a good number of close female friends though. I enjoy hangin out wit and talkin(on friendship level) to guys b/c alot of times the are more honest and more objective than even my best female friends (unless the guy has a motive). For instance say a female is dating a guy. Her female friends will tell her how cute they are together and what not, even though they may think he's not right for her b/c of stuff they may or may not know about him. Her guy friends though( the ones without other motives) will tell her from the jump what they think about him, good or bad. Now if the female and her boyfriend break up, alot of times her female friends will say something like "I never liked him anyway" and be doggin him and what not and tell you all the stuff they heard about him before they even got together. Her guy friends on the otherhand will let her know without sayin "I told ya so" that they knew he wasn't right for her the whole time. So basically girls can be iffy, but most guys who don't have any other motives than just a friendship wit a female will be honest wit her and won't renig on what he said.
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