Abortions are they an easy way out of a lifetime mistake

49 replies · 16187 views · Started by shieyrai · Aug 2004

shieyrai

ABORTIONS:ChildreN ARENT MISTaKES...excuse me for saying that, just sometimes they are unplanned. A number of my friends have had one and they are happy at the end that they had it taken care of so that they were able to complete school/highschool/college/work ext. But do uthink it should happen or should u just man up to your responsibilities or go thru wit the **** so your life wont be completely ruined and just regret it later. PLEASE SPEAK FREELY. NO MATTER IF YOUR FOR IT OR AGAINST IT DONT BE SCARED

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La · Feb 2005

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^^^ so what about those who have been ****??? They were FORCED to lay down and be taken adantage of...Shouldnt they have a right to decide if they wanna keep the child of a man that took advantage of them??? :? Dont you think its a bit unfair of anyone to tell them they should have to keep their child regardless of the circumstances?

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BabyGurl609 from Willingboro, NJ · Feb 2005

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Lady_ J wrote:
^^^ so what about those who have been ****??? They were FORCED to lay down and be taken adantage of...Shouldnt they have a right to decide if they wanna keep the child of a man that took advantage of them??? :? Dont you think its a bit unfair of anyone to tell them they should have to keep their child regardless of the circumstances?

YES I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU'RE SAY ABOUT PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN ****; BUT JUST AS THAT WASN'T INTENTIONAL TO MAKE A BABY IN MY OPINION THEY STILL SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO HAVE AN ****. I FEEL AS THOUGH WHICH EVERY WAY YOU BECAME IMPREGNATED WETHER INTENTIONAL OR UNINTENTIONAL THEN THAT BABY HAS THE RIGHT TO HAVE LIFE. IF A FEMALE HAS BEEN **** THEN AUTOMATICALLY SHE'S NOT GOING TO WANT THE BABY SO FROM THE FIRST DOCTOR'S VISIT SHE SHOULD MAKE SIGN THE PAPERWORK FOR ADOPTION AT BIRTH. BUT NO BABY DERSERVES THE RIGHT TO DIE!!! IF WE KEEP KILLING OUR BABIES THEN THE WORLD WILL SOON END, BECAUSE THERE WILL BE NO ONE LEFT AFTER WE'RE ALL GONE!

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· Feb 2005

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Abortions are vile, disgusting acts. They are repulsive. 2 conditions of ****: A) Risk of mother's life B) Criminal circumstances Anything out of those two are f*ckin disgusting. Just think about it like this...every fetus that is aborted...that is one less possibility for the next Malcolm X, Martin Luther King, Muhammad Ali... Putrid. Thunder

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· Feb 2005

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Condoms, pills, shots and the patch don't work all the time. I can honestly say that I experinced it even though I used a ****. The ****is scary. You're already scared and confused then to have people in your face saying what you're doing is wrong doesn't help. I'm ****, not pro-****. I feel that it should be the person's decision on what they do with thier own lives. Any of ya'll about to adopt some kids? Or plan on it in the future? Are ya'll going around helping the kids that are being neglected and abused? :? As for the question about whether your own mother had gotten an **** when she got pregnant with you, if you believe in God, you know that everything happens for a reason. If you are suppose to born (if you have a specific purpose), you're going to be given life. How do you know that that **** was suppose to happen to the female? That God intended for that to happen to help change that person's ways. I know somebody is gonna try and come at me with that "thou shall not ****" stuff :roll: All of this said, I don't believe in **** being used as a way of ****.

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peachyhoney02 from Washington, DC · Feb 2005

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I HATE TO DO THIS BUT SOME PEOPLE JUST NEED TO KNOW. MALES CAN SAY ONE THING WHEN THEY ARE NOT IN THE SITUATION BUT WHEN THEY GET IN IT THE FIRST THING OUT OF THEIR MOUTHS IS GET AN ****. I HAVE HAD ONE SINCE BEING IN COLLEGE. THE FATHER WAS A BASKETBALL PLAYER AND IT JUST WASNT THE RIGHT TIME. I DONT AGREE WITH ABORTIONS BUT IT WAS MY FAMILY THAT PUSHED IT ON ME. THEY WERE THE ONES THAT WANTED ME TO GET IT. YEAH THEY GET YOU OUT OF THE RESPONSIBILITY AT THE TIME BUT YOU HAVE A LOT OF EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE THAT YOU END UP CARRYING AROUND CAUSE YOU KNOW THAT YOU ENDED A CHILDS LIFE. SOME PEOPLE DONT THINK OF IT THAT WAY BUT I DO. I STILL STAY UP CRYING AT NIGHT SOMETIMES CAUSE I WANT THAT BABY BACK. I FEEL THAT GOD WILL NEVER FORGIVE ME FOR TAKING A LIFE. THAT IS SOMETHING REAL HEAVY TO CARRY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. I GOT THE **** 2 YEARS AGO THIS MAY BUT IT IS STILL A BIG THING THAT IS IN MY HEAD AND IN MY HEART. I JUST CANT WAIT TO SEE THAT CHILD IN HEAVEN (HOPEFULLY I WILL GET THERE)

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The Big Girl Sweetz · Feb 2005

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Ms. DerbyCity2008 wrote:
Condoms, pills, shots and the patch don't work all the time. I can honestly say that I experinced it even though I used a ****. The ****is scary. You're already scared and confused then to have people in your face saying what you're doing is wrong doesn't help. I'm ****, not pro-****. I feel that it should be the person's decision on what they do with thier own lives. Any of ya'll about to adopt some kids? Or plan on it in the future? Are ya'll going around helping the kids that are being neglected and abused? :? As for the question about whether your own mother had gotten an **** when she got pregnant with you, if you believe in God, you know that everything happens for a reason. If you are suppose to born (if you have a specific purpose), you're going to be given life. How do you know that that **** was suppose to happen to the female? That God intended for that to happen to help change that person's ways. I know somebody is gonna try and come at me with that "thou shall not ****" stuff :roll: All of this said, I don't believe in **** being used as a way of ****.

If the baby is not supposed to live then GOD will take that baby's life...not the mother...not the doctor... God gave us choices...he allows us to make mistakes to better ourselves...to learn from it...he allows us to fall down...in hopes that we can get back up again with his help.... now...even tho I believe its down right wrong...cuz its almost as if you are saying that you are not willing to trust God....I'm **** as well...because nobody can make that decision for you...nobody but yourself ya kno?? And like i said God gave us the choice to do what we THINK is right...

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The Big Girl Sweetz · Mar 2005

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Ms. DerbyCity2008 wrote:
No what I am saying is that everything happens because of the power of God **** or no ****. Sometimes abortions are good things, it can slow a female or male down. Now I'm gonna leave this forum before anyone else make any more lame assumptions about my faith in God. :roll:

please do not think in any way that im making assumptions about your faith in God....because if i was...i would've plain out said such and such... but i mean you can pretty much take my response as in SOME way similar to yours...."all things happen for a reason"...linked with "God gave us choices...so that we may learn from them..." ....i think the same point we made was that an **** or somethin of that matter can change a person...make them realize a few things and what not....now me personally i would say "sometimes abortions are a good things..." i just wouldn't word it like that.....for me.... so don't get annoyed...don't get mad...this is why we discuss things and have people reply... 8) :arrow: