I FEEL WHAT U SAYING BUT U ALSO HAVE TO REALIZE THAT HALF THE TIMES IN THESE RELATIONSHIPS....WELL MORE THEN HALF WHEN THE OTHER PERSON FINDS OUT ABOUT THE CHEATING...OF COURSE THEY'RE MAD BUT THEY GET OVER IT AND THEY DONT END UP LEAVING THE PERSON...AND THAT GOES ON BOTH ENDS (MALE AND FEMALE)...SO THEY WONT WANNA KNOW BECAUSE IN SOME CASES, THE CHEATER COULD'VE JUST HAD A LAPSE OF JUDGMENT..WHY HAVE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER NOT TRUST YOU OR DOUBT U FOR THE REST OF THE RELATIONSHIP JUST BECAUSE YOU MESSED UP ONE TIME....NOW IF IT CONTINUES AND THE CHEATER IS JUST DOWN RIGHT DISRESPECTFUL ABOUT IT THEN OK....BUT MOST OF THE TIME WITH CHEATING IT HAPPENED ONCE AND IT WAS REGRETTED..
Are....
You.....
Serious?
Its mentality like that that gives fellas the right to cheat. If you KNOW that your mate is gonna forgive you and and right it off as a "lapse of Judgement" What in the hell is stopping you from cheating?
Cheating Once is unforgivable. You don't "Accidently" cheat on somebody. You don't just walk into a room, slip and just fall in the p@ssy, there is a conscience effort on the Cheater's part. By forgiving the person, you are basically giving them a free pass to do it again because they know that you'll forgive them.
I FEEL WHAT U SAYING BUT U ALSO HAVE TO REALIZE THAT HALF THE TIMES IN THESE RELATIONSHIPS....WELL MORE THEN HALF WHEN THE OTHER PERSON FINDS OUT ABOUT THE CHEATING...OF COURSE THEY'RE MAD BUT THEY GET OVER IT AND THEY DONT END UP LEAVING THE PERSON...AND THAT GOES ON BOTH ENDS (MALE AND FEMALE)...SO THEY WONT WANNA KNOW BECAUSE IN SOME CASES, THE CHEATER COULD'VE JUST HAD A LAPSE OF JUDGMENT..WHY HAVE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER NOT TRUST YOU OR DOUBT U FOR THE REST OF THE RELATIONSHIP JUST BECAUSE YOU MESSED UP ONE TIME....NOW IF IT CONTINUES AND THE CHEATER IS JUST DOWN RIGHT DISRESPECTFUL ABOUT IT THEN OK....BUT MOST OF THE TIME WITH CHEATING IT HAPPENED ONCE AND IT WAS REGRETTED..
Are....
You.....
Serious?
Its mentality like that that gives fellas the right to cheat. If you KNOW that your mate is gonna forgive you and and right it off as a "lapse of Judgement" What in the hell is stopping you from cheating?
Cheating Once is unforgivable. You don't "Accidently" cheat on somebody. You don't just walk into a room, slip and just fall in the p@ssy, there is a conscience effort on the Cheater's part. By forgiving the person, you are basically giving them a free pass to do it again because they know that you'll forgive them.
LAPSE OF JUDGEMENT MEANING IT ONLY HAPPENED ONCE....I MEAN PEOPLE CHEAT DAY IN AND DAY OUT....ITS APART OF LIFE....EVERYBODY HAS BEEN CHEATED ON AND HAS CHEATED BEFORE...ITS LIFE...MEN ND WOMEN MAKE BAD DECISIONS ALL THE TIME...AS LONG AS YOU LEARN FRM THEM ITS ALL GOOD...NOW IF THE PERSON IS REPEATEDLY CHEATING THEN ITS OBVIOUS THEY DONT CARE ABOUT YOU..BUT HAVING CHEATED ONE TIME AND TRULY REGRETTED IT? COME ON NOW..HOW CAN YOU SAY YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN WITHHOLD BAD TIMES?.....NOBODY'S PERFECT..I MEAN EVEN IN WEDDING VOWS IT SAYS "FOR BETTER OR WORST"...I MEAN WHAT DO U THINK "THE WORST" MEANS?..I MEAN WE'RE YOUNG..... BUT LIKE I AGREED WITH EARLIER...ITS ALL ABOUT THE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP....
and she cheating on me ..... i hope she lands on top of a garbage dumpster
