I know I am quite knowledgable about black greek organizations (among other things). But when do you think a non-member has overstepped their boundaries. I've been to a web site that was composed of mainly west coast greeks and I know that many of the comments stated by non-members in this forum wouldn't fly over their (mine included). I just wanted to know, aside from perping, when do you think a non-greek has overstepped the boundaries?
f*ck all that founding principles nonsense...that ****is played out and lame. you wanna join to "twirl" a cane and throw up a diamond because you seen someone do it and the ****was slick. let's be real man...you're just like everybody else who is interested in fraternities/sororities...it's the glamour and glitz behind it all that attracts you. I wanted to be a Que because they was the nastiest **** around and I like that shyt...that's my personality. On the flip to that, Omegas are some of the most down to earth, realist people that you will ever meet. Can set out a hop on the yard then 10 minutes later go to a meeting and get things done. That's Omega my friend. You're looking at it from the outside looking in. Yea we wear dog collars and whatnot...that even has significance...but I aint here to talk about Omega.
Do I apologize if I have offended you in some way..hell no. should you apologize to me? hell no. you have your opinion and I have mine. However, I have concrete backings behind mine and you only have aspirations. From one black man to another, I hope you are successful in whatever it is that you do...I wouldn't be uplifting my people if I wasn't sincere in that. But when it comes to fraternity business (I can't speak for Kappa) but there are things that these orgs (mine included) hold sacred...and a lot of it is secret. And if you can't be discrete about something as simple as being interested, who's to say you won't go flying off at the mouth to some aspiring young GDI that reminds you of you before you got down. All I'm saying is respect the organization in which you seek membership...in short CHANGE THE SCREEN NAME
O yea...you're late with the pizza
wow at first i wasnt shure if i was gonna agree with what u were about to say and u caught me off gaurd with that...i must say that was very well said. it gives some of us a clear idea behind the secrecy(sp?) behind it all...makes lots of sense. and yes i agree sometimes we need to humble our self
I know I am quite knowledgable about black greek organizations (among other things). But when do you think a non-member has overstepped their boundaries. I've been to a web site that was composed of mainly west coast greeks and I know that many of the comments stated by non-members in this forum wouldn't fly over their (mine included). I just wanted to know, aside from perping, when do you think a non-greek has overstepped the boundaries?
Sometimes, posting topics such as this one could be considered as "overstepping your boundaries"...just a thought 8)
I dont have my letters yet but I do know that discreation is a must. My bestfriend is greek and one thing she says that if any lady wants to be apart of her organization....one must exemplify principles of good stature,etc. I truly believe if you do step to a member of any organization in a respectful manner; they will give up the upmost respect. :lol:
lol sounds like you've just contradicted yourself there. How are you gonna make a statement boldly letting everyone know you're attemting to join xyz sorrority/fraternety but yet you say right after it "discreation is a must" but you were in no way being discreat about anything at all. As a matter of fact you putting every damn thing out there. smh. You can't just say it. You have to actually do it!
Ok, let me break it down..... Not once has I said which organization that I was planning on pledging; my bestfriend neither does my own family knows what I'm pledging. As a matter of fact, I didn't even say I was pledging one of the sororities of the Divine 9.
I'll tell u when u've gone TOO FAR. When u just talking to someone who is non-greek and u say "yeah... I came through SPR 04...#11, such and such a chapter" and u just happen to be talking to a GOOD friend of that lines DP!! and so it gets back to that person that the friend was talking #11 about coming through her Chapter and it comes to light that there were only 10 girls on the line!!
All in all.... if that person is reading this right now.... there is only room for ONE TAIL DOG to MY line and that ONE is ME!!
Zeta Alpha.... the one and ONLY #10...SPR 04!
Get em Soror!!! Call me and your other 16 LB's when yall gonna squad up on dat @$$...I'll bring the camera it could a PHAmily gathering
*running next door to The ZPBS House yelling "BLU & WHITE Squad Up!!!"*
LOL....oh we got it frat. Matter of fact me and my #5 are tryin to figure out who she is so we can "chat" a little about her "experience" on line....
I am a Zeta but my friend who is a Delta and I were standing in the book store and this girl comes up to my friend, who had on a Delta tee, and says I wanna be one of those and touches my friends letters. Now I had two problems with that. First, don't ever touch my letters and second those letters are my chest which means you are touching my ****. Those are not there for some random person to just be feeling on.
I am a Zeta but my friend who is a Delta and I were standing in the book store and this girl comes up to my friend, who had on a Delta tee, and says I wanna be one of those and touches my friends letters. Now I had two problems with that. First, don't ever touch my letters and second those letters are my chest which means you are touching my ****. Those are not there for some random person to just be feeling on.
WOW...Thats super bold of her. Around here thats liable for a SERIOUS beatdown.
An associate of mine was going to attend a function of my org. Of course she was nervous but very excited to fulfil her dream. (Personally, I know she would be great addition to the org b/c she exemplifies the principles of an AKA woman. the girl is bad academically, socially, spiritually and mentally) After the event she called me the next day and said something to the extent of "my possible soon to be sorority". Uh, no. Honey you went to an event, you ain't in like Flint.
As sad as it was, I had to check her on that quick and let her know that she was still a GDI and that going to an organizational function meant nothing.
Dang, GDIs.......
A no-no to me would be saying you going be this and that in the fall or spring, some people think they're going be this and that but in english...Don't assume you going be down with a organization...you don't pick the organization, the organization picks you!!!
