I know what you mean man. I usually talk to girls from Eastern Europe, Asia, the Middle East, and Central/South America. I don't really care for American girls.
Black American girls can be very materialistic from my experiences. Not to mention that a good bit of them have this image of a "strong" black man to act like a ****, with his pants saggin wearing a shirt 2 sizes too big.
Yeah...and black men can be too superficial and want women to have long straight hair with big butts and hips and light eyes...
It's the way life goes.
You're right, but a dude will more likely at least give a girl even if she doesn't meet his "Standards" as opposed to a female trying to talk to a dude when she's already predisposed to thinking that the guy is supposed to come to her in the first place. THAT'S the way life goes.
I don't think its a male or female thing...
If I have a certain mindset of the kind of guy i like and a guy approaches me.... and he isn't that type...then that doesn't make me a "bad person" ...he just isn't my type.
well I have no problem with ppl dating outside of their race. The problem occurs when that is the only reason the person is dating them. Alot of guys (not all..some) think that white women are easier to control than alot of the other races. If you're dating that person because you actually like that person, thats fine, but if you're dating the white girl just because she's a white girl. That's wrong on so many levels. It's disrespectful to your race and it's always disrespectful to the girl that you're dating. People are too hung up on color. Especially blacks.
Well I like all kinds of men. However, I have to admit that there are very few white guys that I find attractive. As for the thought that there is a shortage of black men, I don't think that it is true. Maybe we are just looking in the wrong places or just not noticing the good men that are around us. Some times we can have unrealistic misconceptions about what a man should be. I know I'd take a brother with ambition over the brother with the rims on his car anyday.
I'm talking about creating a strong identity...That usually couples of a same race can provide for their children... and as Evy said...there are cases that some children don't have the identity problems....Which is wonderful...but if you want to go with the most general answer...I don't believe a white woman/man can effectively teach a mixed child what it is to be that "Strong" Black/Hispanic (or whatever the other race may be)...
I agree with you 100%. And I'm sick of hearing mixed kids (in Iowa) say. "I'm not Black, but I'm not White either. I'm in between.". Isn't that the most ridiculous thing you've ever heard?In my eyes, mixed kids are Black. Look at them, if slavery was still going on right now. They would be slaves too. **** masters considered mixed kids "******s" too. Do they think they're above the rest of us because one of their parents is white? How delusional! (They must know better than going around tryin' to say their white)Now that's something that I'd like to see. A mixed kid out picking cotton sayin'... "I'm not Black". What?! Then what are you??? ..Nothing? There is no such thing as "in between". Their **** are BLACK.What, are they ashamed? (Hmm, ...maybe it's just the half-breeds in Iowa).
