i was reading somebody's post i forgot where it was and they was tryin to justify why people are single, but i know its different reasons for different people. so if u single, why are u?? is it becuz u cant find someone to meet ur standards, u thinktoo young, or u jus want to be a playa?? whatever the case my be, put it here.
lol now that im single i have a "void" in my life....learn something new all the time...i dont think its been a void more like one huge learning experience....just like any experience sometimes i enjoy it sometimes i dont...
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
i dont know if i have reach the point that there is a void in my life because when i am with someone i find myself getting nrevous and then i make up some dumb reason why i dont wanna be that person........i dunno sometimes i think i wanna be with someone steady but when guys approach want to be on that level with me i back away and then when i am single and no one is approaching me i feel lonely..........sorry yall im just rambling on and on right now i cant explin how i feel
Itz ok @ GaPeach cuz Im the same way...
Except...I go through stages where i meet like 5 dudes in 1 week..and I'll talk to all of em..and I'll have my fav one that i wanna get with..playing the otha dudes..who by the way..are either cute..intelligent as hell..or jus wanna spend some quality time w/me without all the bullshyt...
But anyways..I always pick the wrong one...who ends up being someone i shouldnt even waste my time with...
I've never gone out and searched for someone..because thats when u find the WRONG one..I usually let the guys come to me...but i always push them away when its time to actually have a "relationship"...the whole part of getting a guy..flirting..is exciting to me...so i've never settled down...
But now Im at a point when Im actually just going to open up to someone who i feel i can be in a serious relationship with..It wont be until aug when i get down to school..cuz i REFUSE to do long distance :roll:
good luck gurl.......i have accepted that right now i just need to be free, because if i am having this much trouble commiting/trusting myself with someone then its probably best i remain single.......but there is nothing wrong with being single and dating :wink:
awww
well i dont know why Im single. I flirt with a whole lot of guys but it just never escalates to the point where we would end up dating or either somthing tramatic happens like he **** mah best friend a month before and thats debted lol. Im still real young and I have plenty of time but it seems as if the rest of the world or just my peers are leaving me behind. Or maybe thats just then actin grown iono.
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
I feel u homie(no pun intended). But to be honest, i've been single all my life, and the only time i've really felt a void was when i was far from God. When it comes to me, if i'm not where i need to be spiritually, i'm gonna constantly yearn for attention/affection/admiration from a man...ANY man (and that's where the problem lies). The key is to have the RIGHT man. Since he hasn't come along yet, i'll just be chillin & doin the single thing, patiently awaiting my King.
Wow. I thought I was the only one who has been single my whole life. I used to feel bad about it, but I really don't care now.
I feel ya on on that post because that's part of the reason why i'm single right now. The main reason why is cause I don't wanna compromise my Christian beliefs. I'm waiting for God to send me the RIGHT one. I'm a woman, and I don't wanna go out looking for a man. I want a man to find me. I get lonely sometimes, but it's natural. I admit I used to pursue men I was interested in, but it lead to being hurt.
All these guys I ran into were only focused on my looks and not my mind. I'm tired of all these dudes who only wanna use my body to please themselves. :x It was either that or we just didn't have much in common. :arrow:
As for me I don't really know why... i guess its a culmination of things but i think the main reason is that I see no point in getting in relationship unless its gonna last a while and that future woman and her personality gels with mine... a friend of mine brought it up a while back but there are 5 attributes of attraction physical, spiritual, mental (the other two i can't remember but they made sense...) and unless she meets all 5 then i figure there is no point in pursuing anything...
plus too many women can be crazy and i'm not down with the whole dude love thing so i'm assed out...
Well...u DO go to Morehouse and i hear the whole "dude love thing" is in around those parts :wink:. So don't think of yourself as "assesed out" (no pun intended)
k, i'll shut up now before i ruin the little chance that i have wit the ole "Morehouse Man" fantasy.
Im single by choice. I havent too long got out of a rough relationship, so im not really trying to rush back into another ya know. Actually im enjoying the single life, because I really DONT miss my ex calling me asking where im at, where im about to go, and who im with. That ****use to aggrevate the hell out of me. So unlike most people, the single life isnt stressing me out. :lol:
I think Im scared of commitment anyway :?
This is the first time i've been single in a long time. i use to feel like i needed a man but now that i'm single, it feels kinda good. i hate when yo man calls askin where u been, who u been with, i like doin things on my own time. i'm not running from a relationship but if that right person comes along and makes me want to give up my single life..then so be it..until then PLAY ON PLAYA...LOL j/k :wink:
good luck gurl.......i have accepted that right now i just need to be free, because if i am having this much trouble commiting/trusting myself with someone then its probably best i remain single.......but there is nothing wrong with being single and dating :wink:
