I ALWAYS hear girls saying that they have more guy friends than girls. Everytime I hear it, I can't help but to think, (even 4 a split second) that she's giving it up to alot of guys,etc. Why do girls not have closer relationships with their own gender? more importantly, why do we want to know that you have more males in your life than females??
I have alot of guy friends, but that's cuz alot of the gurls where I went to school were messy. I'm not for all that BS. I have a good number of close female friends though. I enjoy hangin out wit and talkin(on friendship level) to guys b/c alot of times the are more honest and more objective than even my best female friends (unless the guy has a motive). For instance say a female is dating a guy. Her female friends will tell her how cute they are together and what not, even though they may think he's not right for her b/c of stuff they may or may not know about him. Her guy friends though( the ones without other motives) will tell her from the jump what they think about him, good or bad. Now if the female and her boyfriend break up, alot of times her female friends will say something like "I never liked him anyway" and be doggin him and what not and tell you all the stuff they heard about him before they even got together. Her guy friends on the otherhand will let her know without sayin "I told ya so" that they knew he wasn't right for her the whole time. So basically girls can be iffy, but most guys who don't have any other motives than just a friendship wit a female will be honest wit her and won't renig on what he said.
Girls are a lot more critical and petty than guys are and that gets on ur nerves. Females are so quick to say "B*tch think she cute" and thats aggravating. Yeah it may sound bad but I do have a lot of guy friends not that I sleep with them all...but that I can relate to them and we just chill and talk. I do have some really close friend girls but other than that I chill with dudes cuz they are laid back and don't sweat the small stuff. I like that. Now if u see a female with all dudes and never ANY female friends, u might have to question that.
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i agree allll the way. i am the only girl and have 3 older brothers, so i've been around guys all my life. didnt start to hang with chicks until 12th grade. but freshman year of college proved that you should only keep a hand full of tight girl friends...cuz these **** be shaaaddddyyyyyyy! i try to avoid drama, but when u hang with too many chicks mouths start to run and its always " well i didnt say that" yeah sure! but i do have some girl friends that remind me why i like having female friends. even though i love chillin with the boys..i like doing extra girly things and i love having movie night & girl talk!
