How many of yall think when u get married the woman should cook for you?? n ladies how many of yall would cook for your man??
personally i think it should be 50-50
what yall think?
Ever since i can remember the females in my family have ALWAYS catered to their men...especially when it comes to cooking....if my aunts boyfriend wants some cookies at 3am she is up making them...same with my mother..i guess since that was what i was taught at an early age...thats just how it is. the old fashion way. I couldn't picture my man or husband in the kitchen making anything..not even a sandwich..it just doesn't seem right to me :???: MEN DONT BELONG IN THE KITCHEN PERIOD..just like women don't belong in the driveway under the hood of the car 8-)
This is why i can't stand most fathers...They leave everything up to the mothers. You went in half on that child so you should take an active part in their life.
This is why i can't stand most fathers...They leave everything up to the mothers. You went in half on that child so you should take an active part in their life.
yeah i do plan on being with my kids after work, but i'm saying i don't want 2 working parents epecially if one doesn't have to...of course i'm with them after i get home, i'll coock clean, whateva...12 hour day is no biggy to me...like even right now after work, i come home and spend at least an hour with my niece...and i left for work at 7 am this morning at got home at 7 30 PM! it doesn't matter how tired i am, i love spending time with kids...and i realise how important that little time is with them for their developement...
yeah weekends n days off i plan on taking my kids out...you know just give my wife a few days to herself..she can go out shopping and whatnot...weekends are "leave mommy alone" days...i'll take the kids with me to the zoo...to run erands...whateva...
and that's my perfect picture of what balancing roles should be....
well, as far as the cooking goes, I'm very particular about my kitchen because I love to cook so I would probably do most of the cooking but if there was something my man made better than me, than it's fine for him to go in there and burn, but I just feel real good when I put a plate in front of someone and they eat that ****and all you hear is "ummmmm", so uhhh I wanna do the cookin, as for the kids and all that, when my kids are young I plan to be at home wit them but once they get of age to go to school, I"ll be back at work.
Ever since i can remember the females in my family have ALWAYS catered to their men...especially when it comes to cooking....if my aunts boyfriend wants some cookies at 3am she is up making them...same with my mother..i guess since that was what i was taught at an early age...thats just how it is. the old fashion way. I couldn't picture my man or husband in the kitchen making anything..not even a sandwich..it just doesn't seem right to me :???: MEN DONT BELONG IN THE KITCHEN PERIOD..just like women don't belong in the driveway under the hood of the car 8-)
Hey they say cooking is the best way to a man's heart and his wallet... just kiddin 8)
HAHA...yeah I agree with you....I know how to cook. Actually I love to cook....but don't expect a full coarse meal 7 days out the week.
I'll do just how my mom does...out of the 7 she cooks a nice big meal on 3 of em... deal with it...tuesay....thursay...and then on sunday.
Other then that it'z all on u playa....Hopefully I'll get a man who can cook...if not itz cool as long as he taking me out to eat once or twice a week.
I'll do just how my mom does...out of the 7 she cooks a nice big meal on 3 of em... deal with it...tuesay....thursay...and then on sunday.
Other then that it'z all on u playa....Hopefully I'll get a man who can cook...if not itz cool as long as he taking me out to eat once or twice a week.
Ever since i can remember the females in my family have ALWAYS catered to their men...especially when it comes to cooking....if my aunts boyfriend wants some cookies at 3am she is up making them...same with my mother..i guess since that was what i was taught at an early age...thats just how it is. the old fashion way. I couldn't picture my man or husband in the kitchen making anything..not even a sandwich..it just doesn't seem right to me :???: MEN DONT BELONG IN THE KITCHEN PERIOD..just like women don't belong in the driveway under the hood of the car 8-)
I NEED TO FIND A WOMAN LIKE THAT TO MARRY. I actually don't have no problem w/ doin it. I watch my mother do it all the time and anytime she tired I can and will cook for myself (or others). But like rese said, generally if you handlin yo biness in all the other areas that you suposed to be handlin as a man then whats wrong with a woman handlin her biness in the kitchen? I also feel brwnbell about takin care of her kids when they young. Thats just a woman handlin the biness right there. But overall I definitely wouldnt EVER have my wife takin out the garbage or cuttin the grass.
Besides....thats what kids are for :-D j/p
Ever since i can remember the females in my family have ALWAYS catered to their men...especially when it comes to cooking....if my aunts boyfriend wants some cookies at 3am she is up making them...same with my mother..i guess since that was what i was taught at an early age...thats just how it is. the old fashion way. I couldn't picture my man or husband in the kitchen making anything..not even a sandwich..it just doesn't seem right to me :???: MEN DONT BELONG IN THE KITCHEN PERIOD..just like women don't belong in the driveway under the hood of the car 8-)
I NEED TO FIND A WOMAN LIKE THAT TO MARRY. I actually don't have no problem w/ doin it. I watch my mother do it all the time and anytime she tired I can and will cook for myself (or others). But like rese said, generally if you handlin yo biness in all the other areas that you suposed to be handlin as a man then whats wrong with a woman handlin her biness in the kitchen? I also feel brwnbell about takin care of her kids when they young. Thats just a woman handlin the biness right there. But overall I definitely wouldnt EVER have my wife takin out the garbage or cuttin the grass.
Besides....thats what kids are for :-D j/p
Ever since i can remember the females in my family have ALWAYS catered to their men...especially when it comes to cooking....if my aunts boyfriend wants some cookies at 3am she is up making them...same with my mother..i guess since that was what i was taught at an early age...thats just how it is. the old fashion way. I couldn't picture my man or husband in the kitchen making anything..not even a sandwich..it just doesn't seem right to me :???: MEN DONT BELONG IN THE KITCHEN PERIOD..just like women don't belong in the driveway under the hood of the car 8-)
I NEED TO FIND A WOMAN LIKE THAT TO MARRY. I actually don't have no problem w/ doin it. I watch my mother do it all the time and anytime she tired I can and will cook for myself (or others). But like rese said, generally if you handlin yo biness in all the other areas that you suposed to be handlin as a man then whats wrong with a woman handlin her biness in the kitchen? I also feel brwnbell about takin care of her kids when they young. Thats just a woman handlin the biness right there. But overall I definitely wouldnt EVER have my wife takin out the garbage or cuttin the grass.
Besides....thats what kids are for :-D j/p
Lord, these old fasion folks...but do you.
I wouldnt say old fashion thats not the case. I would cook but why wouldnt my wife want to cook? When people get married I would believe that they have some types of expectations for each other. The wife expect SOMETHIN out of the husband around the house and in turn the husband expects somethin around the house of the husband. The marriage shouldn be 50/50 it should be what satisfies both parties and I doubt a woman that works all day and expects the male to do EVERYTHING (cleanin, cookin, and yard work) would be havin any kinda consideration. That works out both ways for husband of wife tho. It just all makes perfect sense to me. I'm sure alot more complicated when done but thats a blueprint.
