If you two aren't doing anything wrong, than you are not wrong. BUT I do understand why she would be skeptical about the whole situation. I mean you two were romantically involved. She is a little silly for staying with the guy, but it is her man. If I were you I would just leave him alone.
smh...WOW just WOW....people have have REALLY surprised me with some of their views. I guess nothing ceases to amaze me with peoples comments and opinions...NONETHELESS, I will say this. Megan if dude is still calling you and you have deleted his number and dont call him, why not just tell him you dont wanna talk to him anymore and hang up? Why not save his number so now when you know he is calling you, you can silence his call. Avoiding his phone calls shouldnt be too difficult of a task in this situation if you SINCERELY dont wanna talk to him anymore even as a friend. When he calls and you dont answer anymore he should get the point that you dont wanna talk to him anymore.
...I was about to say. It is not that hard to avoid talking to him. If you have to, save the number in your phone and put "DO NOT ANSWER" as his name..i'm sayin though. Just because he calls you and you don't call him doesn't make it any better. You still talkin to his ****.
lol...
did anybody else hear megan type over and over how they just friends and he calls her?
****... it was mad funny readin this cause it would belike
"megan youre wrong for callin dude after he..(yadda yadda)"
"I dont call dude that often, he call me, plus were just friends"
"megan youre wrong for still likin dude
"were just friends"
"megan youre wrong for still talkin to dude on that level"
"i dont call dude that often"
"megan youre wrong for lettin dude play you like that"
i mean, maybe its time for some Huge bold print about now, megan.
but anyway, why call him when you can call me?
CAUSE YOUR MARRIED TO ME !!! plus i dont want no other b*tches calling my man.
lol ohyeah i did forget i was married to you.
its okay, megan you dont got a problem with it do you?
****, j/p.
lol...im bout to file for divorce if you dont behave.
youre not goin anywhere.
just like the girls in megans stories.
Y'all making it seem like Megan was the only girl that dude was talking to. He was messing around before he met her, hsoot, he prolly still messing around. If a girl was messing round on me for 13 years and I came up on here and posted bout it, most a y'all would call me a **** for staying wit ol girl. Y'all would laugh at me, etc., etc.
Point already been made that he trying to keep in contact wit her, and not the other way around.
Side note: Nisey are you saying that if you in a relationship wit a dude, he cannot call any other girls?
Yes thats wut im saying UNLESS she was a friend that came waayyy before me. To me thats just not right to be involved in a SERIOUS relationship and to have "new" girls callin u...what would be their reason for calling?on yeah and this sh ould help also.
Y'all making it seem like Megan was the only girl that dude was talking to. He was messing around before he met her, hsoot, he prolly still messing around. If a girl was messing round on me for 13 years and I came up on here and posted bout it, most a y'all would call me a **** for staying wit ol girl. Y'all would laugh at me, etc., etc.
Point already been made that he trying to keep in contact wit her, and not the other way around.
Side note: Nisey are you saying that if you in a relationship wit a dude, he cannot call any other girls?
Yes thats wut im saying UNLESS she was a friend that came waayyy before me. To me thats just not right to be involved in a SERIOUS relationship and to have "new" girls callin u...what would be their reason for calling?
Y'all making it seem like Megan was the only girl that dude was talking to. He was messing around before he met her, hsoot, he prolly still messing around. If a girl was messing round on me for 13 years and I came up on here and posted bout it, most a y'all would call me a **** for staying wit ol girl. Y'all would laugh at me, etc., etc.
Point already been made that he trying to keep in contact wit her, and not the other way around.
Side note: Nisey are you saying that if you in a relationship wit a dude, he cannot call any other girls?
Yes thats wut im saying UNLESS she was a friend that came waayyy before me. To me thats just not right to be involved in a SERIOUS relationship and to have "new" girls callin u...what would be their reason for calling?
Y'all making it seem like Megan was the only girl that dude was talking to. He was messing around before he met her, hsoot, he prolly still messing around. If a girl was messing round on me for 13 years and I came up on here and posted bout it, most a y'all would call me a **** for staying wit ol girl. Y'all would laugh at me, etc., etc.
Point already been made that he trying to keep in contact wit her, and not the other way around.
Side note: Nisey are you saying that if you in a relationship wit a dude, he cannot call any other girls?
Yes thats wut im saying UNLESS she was a friend that came waayyy before me. To me thats just not right to be involved in a SERIOUS relationship and to have "new" girls callin u...what would be their reason for calling?
so do you think guys should have female friends?
yes
what if a guy you were in a relationship with met a new female friend, and she started calling?
that has recently happend to me..and I asked him why does she need to call u..wuts her reason for calling. and he said because they're friends and I told him no u can have friends without always exhanging numbers. She can see u when she see's u...and the number was deleted frm the phone
that has recently happend to me..and I asked him why does she need to call u..wuts her reason for calling. and he said because they're friends and I told him no u can have friends without always exhanging numbers. She can see u when she see's u...and the number was deleted frm the phone
After reading more of this thread,
I can't see how you believe you are not in the wrong for answering his phone calls AND holding conversations.
What else do you seek from him, because I coulda sworn that there is nothing else he can offer you?
I just don't see why you would want to be friendly with someone like him anymore.
The fact that ol girl keeps seeing your number on the phone bill, even though you know dude is taken cus she talked to you herself, is enough for her to assume that YOU KNOW you're fukkin with a damn-near-married man. AND THAT"S WHY SHE"S COMING AT YOU IN THIS MANNER.
