Hello All,
I know this may sound a little redundant but, I was having a conversation with a male friend of mine and I wanted to know from a man's perspective "why do men cheat." Whoa, did he give me an earful ladies..lol. Anyway read the conversation below and feel free to share your feelings, opinions, etc. on this subject.
Nyla:
I need some real talk right now. I'm so tired of men (black especially) saying how they want a good woman who's smart, funny, attractive, self driven,
have a career, freaky, and the whole nine and then when they get them you all don't know how to handle them. Some even become intimidated. What is really up with all that. Why do men cheat? why would a man have sugar at home but, go out in the streets and start messing with ish? Explain this for me please.
Male:
The only simple way I can put it is that it is nature. A man will be a man first, my example I always use is even the Fine Halle Berry, couldnt keep here men from going astray, and she is mostly every mans dream......And for most men it is all about the hunt, and after the actual ****, it is boring, and they are out to hunt once more. It is not rocket science, just know that it is nothing that the women does, it is just what we do, no matter how great the woman is, there is always another woman on the radar.
lol yall are truly funny...
i think cheating is for people who are cowards...scared to be less than to their friends because they arent pulling in every guy or girl out there.Or dont want to let go of one if thats not what they want or need Its a shame that people think monogamy should be a thing of the past. I think if you really want to be loyal and faithful to your partner...you can. Yes there will be temptation and theres always going to be someone better, more attractive, smarter, etc. but if you keep trying to upgrade you'll never be satisfied because your search will NEVER end. When i find the right one for me im sure i'll encounter men who have something he doesnt, but as long as he continues to have Jesus as his main source and strength, im good! That doesnt mean I'm settling for less than the best, it just means when you find your good thing you hold on to it...and grow into better with them instead of trying to find better automatically...because that will never happen lol
