IN GENERAL.....What are some things that men and women, particularly black men and women, will probably never understand about each other, or never agree with each other about?
Just a few:
Women about men:
-The double standard (men doin a lotta girls is a ****, girl doin a lotta guys is a hoe)
-Why we enjoy video games
-Our fascination with car stereo systems
Men about women:
-The white shoes after Labor Day
-Why y'all just don't get along and always talk negative about each other
-Why the hell y'all have so many shoes, even though dudes barely pay attention to them like that
You should try what I do. When I know that its pointless to even make my point clear whether I'm' wrong or not, then I just stop. I don't say anything. When they pause, I ask if they're done and either go on about my business or continue to act like I'm listening. I can't even begin to act like I give a Sh*t, so I simply don't bother. Makes things less stressful for you and it makes her feel either stupid, or mad because you made her feel stupid. :twisted:
I said that... But I just wanna applaud this man for stating it yet again and maKing it clear as to WHY men don't do the argue thing. It maKes things less stressfull for us (Especially to those of us who can tune you out), and you end up looKin and or feeling stupid or even mad cuz you get no response. I Love it!!!
All I want is some fuccin time. Is that too much to ask for? :evil:
My bofriend ain't called in 2 days, ****maybe it is!!! :cry:
Why is it that girls ALWAYS want "TIME" from the man??? And when they get it they waste it on stupid stuff such as argueing, nagging, or just being difficult?
THEN why is it that when we toss everything off of our schedules to be with them it is never enough? I could be with the girl EVERYDAY for 2 consecutive weeKs, but when I decide to go somewhere alone or with my peoples it's a crime???
And just to throw in a response to that statement ^^^ ... He was prolly with you for every other day and just needed to breathe a li'l. You'll be alright
All I want is some fuccin time. Is that too much to ask for? :evil:
My bofriend ain't called in 2 days, ****maybe it is!!! :cry:
Why is it that girls ALWAYS want "TIME" from the man??? And when they get it they waste it on stupid stuff such as argueing, nagging, or just being difficult?
THEN why is it that when we toss everything off of our schedules to be with them it is never enough? I could be with the girl EVERYDAY for 2 consecutive weeKs, but when I decide to go somewhere alone or with my peoples it's a crime???
And just to throw in a response to that statement ^^^ ... He was prolly with you for every other day and just needed to breathe a li'l. You'll be alright
No he hadn't seen me since last sunday. I haven't heard from him in 3 days now, which is very unusual since he calls me every night before I go to bed. It's making me worry. Anyways, I don't want to consume all his time, because he has his boys and I have my girls. I think it is very vital that we have breathing space. The time I was reffering to is saturday when he didn't show up when he said he he would and he hasn't called me since. Normally he'll call me and tell me what happened. The last thing he told me was he'll see me that afternoon.
That's another thing, if ya'll don't plan on showing up, all you have to do is call. (I think someone mentioned this already.) We WILL NOT be angry if you just tell us, but don't tie up our time. I could be out with somebody else instead wasting my time waiting for you! :twisted: J/K :wink:
You should try what I do. When I know that its pointless to even make my point clear whether I'm' wrong or not, then I just stop. I don't say anything. When they pause, I ask if they're done and either go on about my business or continue to act like I'm listening. I can't even begin to act like I give a Sh*t, so I simply don't bother. Makes things less stressful for you and it makes her feel either stupid, or mad because you made her feel stupid. :twisted:
I said that... But I just wanna applaud this man for stating it yet again and maKing it clear as to WHY men don't do the argue thing. It maKes things less stressfull for us (Especially to those of us who can tune you out), and you end up looKin and or feeling stupid or even mad cuz you get no response. I Love it!!!
:twisted: BRU HA HAAAAA!! :twisted:
:roll:
You're just mad because you caught the silent treatment too... :roll:
You should try what I do. When I know that its pointless to even make my point clear whether I'm' wrong or not, then I just stop. I don't say anything. When they pause, I ask if they're done and either go on about my business or continue to act like I'm listening. I can't even begin to act like I give a Sh*t, so I simply don't bother. Makes things less stressful for you and it makes her feel either stupid, or mad because you made her feel stupid. :twisted:
I said that... But I just wanna applaud this man for stating it yet again and maKing it clear as to WHY men don't do the argue thing. It maKes things less stressfull for us (Especially to those of us who can tune you out), and you end up looKin and or feeling stupid or even mad cuz you get no response. I Love it!!!
:twisted: BRU HA HAAAAA!! :twisted:
:roll:
You're just mad because you caught the silent treatment too... :roll:
yeah ive been getting the silent treatment for 2 WEEKS NOW! :roll:
:roll:
