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THUG? Posted on 07-11-2006
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What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a thug just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.
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replied on 07-12-2006 01:04AM [Reply]
'manda wrote:
f**k thugs. gimme a pharrell.
I know right. But this is for the birds. Some women like the thug types for one of three reasons: 1. They want to be rebellious against what they know their parents would want for them as far as a man goes. 2. They think there is some thrill in dating a "bad boy." Especially with how the music industry glamourizes (is that a word???) the thug life. :???: Of course their misinterpretation is revealed once they start going to bed with a black eye and busted lip every night. And... 3. They are just plain stupid. Bottom line. Give me a preppy college boy anyday.
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YoungPhenom4TheFuture replied on 07-12-2006 01:46AM [Reply]
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Give me a preppy college boy anyday.
Yea I definitely feel you on that. Girls get with the thug type dudes for many reasons but for the most part I think it's about the thrill of being with a "bad boy". They may say that they feel more secure being with somebody who can defend themselves, however i find it ironic that the same reason they say they feel secure (ie gang relation, the drug game), that they're more likely to get hurt from the repercussions they're other half is involved with. I would prefer a guy who could express themselves through the vocabulary they've gained after sitting in college for 4 years instead of someone who would black the other dude's eye. But that's just me.
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Hahaha replied on 07-12-2006 12:29PM [Reply]
UnintentionlyMe wrote:
'manda wrote:
f**k thugs. gimme a pharrell.
I know right. But this is for the birds. Some women like the thug types for one of three reasons: 1. They want to be rebellious against what they know their parents would want for them as far as a man goes. 2. They think there is some thrill in dating a "bad boy." Especially with how the music industry glamourizes (is that a word???) the thug life. :???: Of course their misinterpretation is revealed once they start going to bed with a black eye and busted lip every night. And... 3. They are just plain stupid. Bottom line. Give me a preppy college boy anyday.
what about somebody who's making money in sales who's goofy as hell? 8-)
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A BEAUTIFUL MIND replied on 07-12-2006 03:44PM [Reply]
demmeri wrote:
What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a thug just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.
Don't use black women wanting thugs as the reason why you're thinking about dating latina or other non-black women (because you know good and well not all black women are after thugs and definitely not all latina or non-black women want a good boy.) If you have to pretend to be a thug to get some "coot" from some black women then those are probably the ones you should stay away from. Some black women may want thugs b/c this is basically the image they are taught to accept through the media and especially through their own experiences and upbringing in their neighborhoods and so on... so the thug image becomes appealing. The rough-necks, the bad boys, these are what men are supposed to be like in their minds and anything that contrasts this image (i.e. a man who speaks proper English, isn't aggressive, violent, doesn't wears his clothes baggy or listens to a lot of rap music, and he appreciates a good education) is weak and women usually don't want to be with a man who they believe is weak in their own minds. Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? Fatherless idiots? Ever thought that these "idiots" didn't have a positive male role model to emulate and only got their info on how to be a man from their mothers, drug dealers, rappers, pimps etc. Not every black male can come from a two parent home from the suburbs like yourself so forgive them if their irresposible mother could not choose a mate wisely and that their irresponsible father could not be there for them.
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LadyLike04 replied on 07-12-2006 04:22PM [Reply]
you must be looking in the wrong direction when you look for a "girlfriend".... :???:
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'manda replied on 07-12-2006 05:04PM [Reply]
A BEAUTIFUL MIND wrote:
demmeri wrote:
What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a thug just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.
Don't use black women wanting thugs as the reason why you're thinking about dating latina or other non-black women (because you know good and well not all black women are after thugs and definitely not all latina or non-black women want a good boy.) If you have to pretend to be a thug to get some "coot" from some black women then those are probably the ones you should stay away from. Some black women may want thugs b/c this is basically the image they are taught to accept through the media and especially through their own experiences and upbringing in their neighborhoods and so on... so the thug image becomes appealing. The rough-necks, the bad boys, these are what men are supposed to be like in their minds and anything that contrasts this image (i.e. a man who speaks proper English, isn't aggressive, violent, doesn't wears his clothes baggy or listens to a lot of rap music, and he appreciates a good education) is weak and women usually don't want to be with a man who they believe is weak in their own minds. Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? Fatherless idiots? Ever thought that these "idiots" didn't have a positive male role model to emulate and only got their info on how to be a man from their mothers, drug dealers, rappers, pimps etc. Not every black male can come from a two parent home from the suburbs like yourself so forgive them if their irresposible mother could not choose a mate wisely and that their irresponsible father could not be there for them.
so... you like thugs?
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A BEAUTIFUL MIND replied on 07-12-2006 08:20PM [Reply]
'manda wrote:
A BEAUTIFUL MIND wrote:
demmeri wrote:
What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a thug just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.
Don't use black women wanting thugs as the reason why you're thinking about dating latina or other non-black women (because you know good and well not all black women are after thugs and definitely not all latina or non-black women want a good boy.) If you have to pretend to be a thug to get some "coot" from some black women then those are probably the ones you should stay away from. Some black women may want thugs b/c this is basically the image they are taught to accept through the media and especially through their own experiences and upbringing in their neighborhoods and so on... so the thug image becomes appealing. The rough-necks, the bad boys, these are what men are supposed to be like in their minds and anything that contrasts this image (i.e. a man who speaks proper English, isn't aggressive, violent, doesn't wears his clothes baggy or listens to a lot of rap music, and he appreciates a good education) is weak and women usually don't want to be with a man who they believe is weak in their own minds. Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? Fatherless idiots? Ever thought that these "idiots" didn't have a positive male role model to emulate and only got their info on how to be a man from their mothers, drug dealers, rappers, pimps etc. Not every black male can come from a two parent home from the suburbs like yourself so forgive them if their irresposible mother could not choose a mate wisely and that their irresponsible father could not be there for them.
so... you like thugs?
No but he asked a question and I tried to answer it objectively. What's it to you? :???:
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A BEAUTIFUL MIND replied on 07-13-2006 12:00AM [Reply]
UnintentionlyMe wrote:
A BEAUTIFUL MIND wrote:
demmeri wrote:
What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a thug just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.
Don't use black women wanting thugs as the reason why you're thinking about dating latina or other non-black women (because you know good and well not all black women are after thugs and definitely not all latina or non-black women want a good boy.) If you have to pretend to be a thug to get some "coot" from some black women then those are probably the ones you should stay away from. Some black women may want thugs b/c this is basically the image they are taught to accept through the media and especially through their own experiences and upbringing in their neighborhoods and so on... so the thug image becomes appealing. The rough-necks, the bad boys, these are what men are supposed to be like in their minds and anything that contrasts this image (i.e. a man who speaks proper English, isn't aggressive, violent, doesn't wears his clothes baggy or listens to a lot of rap music, and he appreciates a good education) is weak and women usually don't want to be with a man who they believe is weak in their own minds. Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? Fatherless idiots? Ever thought that these "idiots" didn't have a positive male role model to emulate and only got their info on how to be a man from their mothers, drug dealers, rappers, pimps etc. Not every black male can come from a two parent home from the suburbs like yourself so forgive them if their irresposible mother could not choose a mate wisely and that their irresponsible father could not be there for them.
I agree with the fact that a lot of young black men do not have a lot positive male role models, and that "fatherless idiots" statement was a bit overboard. However, when these young men reach a certain age, I believe they should be able to determine what they want to become and what they do not want to become. Yes, they might not have a father, or uncle, or older brother to show them what's right, but they certainly have teachers, coaches, pastors, and other influences. Just because you grew up in the hood does not mean, or at least should not mean, you are going to automatically become a thug. It's all about desire. Some people for some reason just want that lifestyle.
Yup, good points. I just wish most of them didn't choose that lifestyle despite the positive role models that were present in their lives. It is all about desire.
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fujji from NYC, NY replied on 07-14-2006 05:23AM [Reply]
I personally dislike thugs.
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