I accidentally posted this in the Fellas Area.
Aiight, ladies, I have a question. Say some guy were to approach you and you weren't feeling him. Would you have a problem if he started talking to a close friend? Be honest.
yea...i already answered this ova there but I'll answer here again anyway. Basically...nah I wouldn't have a problem with ol dude talking to my homie because if I didn't want him he deserves to be happy
Like the others said, I wouldnt care. If I wasn't feeling the dude, why would and why should I care who he talks to? Friend or no friend. If they like each other like that, well more power to them. It has happen to me before and I really didnt care. If they liked it, I loved it. Its kinda like wow when that does happen though. I wonder how the friend feels... cause he didnt want her at first. She's like the runner up.
0ooh okay gotcha. Yea I'm not even gonna lie, I might be a little salty (maybe jealous) towards the relationship b/t him and my friend. I mean it's not like I can help being in a relationship, or just getting out of one, but I'm not going to say my feeling are justified either. It's selfish to still feel salty after you've put him in the "friend" catagory, but I don't care *poutz*
If I was interested but wasn't ready my friend would not date him. it would be kind of like dating your bestfriends crush which is a big no no. if she were to decide to talk to him anyway which would not happen I would be upset a little bit, but I would never let any man mess up my friendship. Guys come and go, but good friends are forever.
If I was interested but wasn't ready my friend would not date him. it would be kind of like dating your bestfriends crush which is a big no no. if she were to decide to talk to him anyway which would not happen I would be upset a little bit, but I would never let any man mess up my friendship. Guys come and go, but good friends are forever.
Why should you be a lil' salty or salty at all? It's not his or her (ur friend) fault that at that time YOU were not ready for what he was willing to offer YOU. SO TIME as well as LIFE must move on and that's with you or without you! So as far as her being a runner up or being second place or whatever you may call it. To her she's #1 and you just missed out on a good thing.
