...they really needed it?
This is a true story that happend to me...
I was driving my mothers car to the store and I got caught in a bad thunderstorm. I didnt have an umbrella and it was POURING down raining outside. My mom keeps a Delta Sigma Theta umbrella in her car. (clearly Im not a Delta because I am a male).
Anyway, I said fukk it and I took the umbrella with me inside the store. Personally I didnt think it was a big deal...but hey, thats just me.
Would you let someone real close to you wear/use your nalia if they really needed it? Like if you have on your frat jacket and your girlfriend gets cold, would you let her wear it to keep warm?
Or if a friend needs to go out in the rain but doesnt have an umbrella would you let them use yours even though it clearly has letters on it and they are not a member of that organization?
sure...
its not like century old secrets will be absorbed through osmosis into their body.
but yeah it has to be a valid reason like those oohdatdude mentioned. Not just for any old reason.
hmmmm...i think it really depends on the circumstance. Although I do take my letters very seriously, its not to the point of extremity. Some situations are just like that. One time me and my friend were walking together in a thunderstorm and my hands were full, so she held my umbrella over our heads. In another instance, I was in a hurry and left my bag somewhere, so my friend brought it to me. It needed to be done, so I didn't really see those incidents as a big deal.
Heeey i had a problem with this same mess not too long ago. In the fall my ex girlfriend was talkin to this dude and his best friend is a Sigma.. Well dude dont like me cuz she still talks to me so he decided to put on a sigma jacket and take pics with her while she was ****. WEll to make a story short the dude posted the pics on facebook as his main pic. I saw it and let both of dem have it. I almost got into a fight with dude cuz he knew wat he was doing...
I dont mind letting a female use my nalia but a dude cant unless its something small like an umbrella. If i catch a man wearing my letters than there is a chance that we might fight...
Well dude dont like me cuz she still talks to me so he decided to put on a sigma jacket and take pics with her while she was ****. WEll to make a story short the dude posted the pics on facebook as his main pic.
Hell nah...
see that right there is whole new subject. Thats just disrespectful... and I sho don't like disrespectful folk...
... there'd be some problems.
Heeey i had a problem with this same mess not too long ago. In the fall my ex girlfriend was talkin to this dude and his best friend is a Sigma.. Well dude dont like me cuz she still talks to me so he decided to put on a sigma jacket and take pics with her while she was ****. WEll to make a story short the dude posted the pics on facebook as his main pic. I saw it and let both of dem have it. I almost got into a fight with dude cuz he knew wat he was doing...
I dont mind letting a female use my nalia but a dude cant unless its something small like an umbrella. If i catch a man wearing my letters than there is a chance that we might fight...
I dont see the difference in letting a female wear your nalia and a male...
Neither are in the org, so if you let one do it why not the other?