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dating white guys while @ hbcu Posted on 12-01-2006
diamond_princess04

i was really contemplating on posting this, but its been bothering me for a minute. so here it is. basically b4 i came to skool, i never dated black guys, i only talked to a few of them. so i come to skool and i really dont have much of a choice as to the type of guys i date. so i give it a try n date inside my race. im not saying that i dont like it, its just that i havent had good experiences thus far. now i want to go back to dating guys outside of my race, but i dont know here to start, any suggestions
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giniacuty_757 replied on 12-02-2006 02:40AM [Reply]
I eprsoanlly feel its your preference on who u date BUT I LOOOOOOOOVE MY BROTHAZ OF COLOR I CANT BE DATING NO PGMENTATION NO NO! buT TO EACH ITS OWN U SHOULD TRY DATING GUYS ESPECIALLY IN YOUR RACE U WILL FIND OUT TEYRE NOT THE SAME WHATS SOO GOOD ABOUT WHITE GUYS OVER BLACK GUYS ANYWAY? JUSTCURIOUS I DONT SEE THAT I ALWAYS BUT MY BROTHAZ ON NUEMRO UNO U KNOW MEN OF COLOR GIRL AINT NUTHIN FYNEAH TO ME BUT U GOTTA SEE 4 YA SELF
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'manda replied on 12-02-2006 09:47PM [Reply]
giniacuty_757 wrote:
I eprsoanlly feel its your preference on who u date BUT I LOOOOOOOOVE MY BROTHAZ OF COLOR I CANT BE DATING NO PGMENTATION NO NO! buT TO EACH ITS OWN U SHOULD TRY DATING GUYS ESPECIALLY IN YOUR RACE U WILL FIND OUT TEYRE NOT THE SAME WHATS SOO GOOD ABOUT WHITE GUYS OVER BLACK GUYS ANYWAY? JUSTCURIOUS I DONT SEE THAT I ALWAYS BUT MY BROTHAZ ON NUEMRO UNO U KNOW MEN OF COLOR GIRL AINT NUTHIN FYNEAH TO ME BUT U GOTTA SEE 4 YA SELF
"can't be datin no pigmentation"... but people of color have pigmentation! that's where we get our color from!!
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giniacuty_757 replied on 12-03-2006 12:18AM [Reply]
yeha NO PIGMENTATIO CANT DATE SOMEWITH OUT IT NO PIGMENTATION SHOULD OF WORDED BETTER MY FAULT but I DONT KNOW U DATE WHAT U LIKE IF U FEELING THAT PERSON HE MAKES SENSE YALL LLIKE EACH OTHER I DONT SEE THE BIG DEAL
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NeoSoulBrotha replied on 12-26-2006 10:33AM [Reply]
I think that being at a HBCU will open your eyes to some new experiences, romantically and otherwise. You're about to be exposed to people with personalities and mindsets that will be completely unique to you. Some which work for you, and some dont. I would say do whatever makes you comfortable and happy. ________________________ NeoSoulBrotha... Hampton University C/O 2004 "Help my wings grow... so that I can really be fly..." - Mos Def If knowledge is power, why do those in power have so little knowledge??
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SuperFly replied on 01-03-2007 03:33PM [Reply]
diamond_princess04 wrote:
i was really contemplating on posting this, but its been bothering me for a minute. so here it is. basically b4 i came to skool, i never dated black guys, i only talked to a few of them. so i come to skool and i really dont have much of a choice as to the type of guys i date. so i give it a try n date inside my race. im not saying that i dont like it, its just that i havent had good experiences thus far. now i want to go back to dating guys outside of my race, but i dont know here to start, any suggestions
Look, If nobody else feels you I FEEL YOU. Coming from a completely white neighborhood, going to NC A&T was a huge culture shock for me, but I got used to it. I NEVER hung out/dated black people in high school. Going to an HBCU is a knock in the head to anyone attenting one though. While you're moping around worring about your experiences with a certain race, you've comepletely ignored the fact that whether you know it or not, there are other people at your school that are just like you. However, even though my experiences with black women haven't been anything to write home to mum about, I wouldn't limit myself if I were you. Regardless of whether you go to an HBCU or not. For every white guy that you date because you haven't had good experiences otherwise, there's a Black guy, a Latino guy, an Asian guy, and God knows how many mulattos, octaroons, and what have you that only can understand where you're coming from, but would probably right up your alley. But you're too focused on the stereotypes of a skin colour. No matter what school you go to, there's ALWAYS a choice. HBCUs aren't just for black folk, they're for everyone. Many of the people that I had classes with and even worked with on campus were white. No, they weren't the "wiggas" that you're probably thinking. I know more people at A&T that are of OTHER nationalities at A&T than I do black folk. In addition, your experiences with white guys can't be all that fantastic either. Otherwise, you'd still be with the FIRST one that you went with. So don't try to stick it on one race. Babes, you got some growing up to do, for real. I don't mean in a disrespectful way, but there are so many other aspects of a guy that you should be worried about besides a skin colour. Otherwise you're missing the whole picture of being with someone.
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 01-15-2007 03:50PM [Reply]
Wow...Ummm... Like the person above stated, do not limit yourself to one particular race of men. I know and understand how difficult it is but you have to keep an open mind and heart. If all else fails, expand your horizons off campus. Maybe, there is a majority school near by where you could meet new people. I'd also check out the web. Why? Well, there are plenty of dating sites that cater specifically to those who seek interracial relationships. Good luck!
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SuperFly replied on 01-15-2007 09:22PM [Reply]
There's a ghost in these here forums...
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 01-15-2007 10:37PM [Reply]
Hey, to you too!! Bighead!
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klake15 replied on 01-15-2007 10:37PM [Reply]
don't search. you'll bump into your man when you least expect it. be patient. -Kristin
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