You F*cked him, did him wrong and now the two of you are apart.
Or maybe he F*cked you, did you wrong and now youre apart.
It doesnt matter, it really doesnt. You play like you don't care for that boi anymore because he can't do a THING for you, yet this is what really gets me:
Why get mad at another chick for pickin up yo loose ends?
If Ive seen it once, Ive seen it a thousand times. People see their ex having a great time with someone else and their life goes on and they feel the need to either make them miserable, get in the new persons face or just get mad in general. Thats just trifling.
A Girl has these rights with her man:
1. To Fight for her Man
2. To Know Where he is
3. To Honor him
4. To Believe him (F*ck what your friends said, you know they're triflin just like you)
5. To Be **** when you see him with someone else and it looks any bit more than casual
If hes not her man, then all of these things you see here DONT APPLY! Thats right, its NOT cool to fight for some ova brova, ask him where hes been all night or be **** when you see him with someone else. You just gotta let some sh*t slide.
That goes for guys too. Stalkin **** people, yall need morals.
I AGREE THAT IS STUPID TO GET MAD WHEN U DIDNT WANT THAT PERSON.......BUT ITS HUMAN NATURE SOMETIMES U JUST CANT HELP BUT FEEL THAT WAY
That's exactly what I was about to say. You probably will get mad if you still have feelings for him/her but you no longer have claims to that person anymore so . . . you're just SOL. That's why you think things through carefully before you decide to break up with someone. Rash decisions lead to irrational emotions.
A LOT OF TIMES, THIS HAPPENS BECAUSE THE BOY IS STILL PROBABLY MESSING WITH THE EX, OR TELLING HER THAT THE OTHER GIRL IS JUST A FRIEND. I SOMETIMES THINK THAT IS THE REASON. BECAUSE IF I AM DATING A DUDE AND SEE HIM WITH ANOTHER CHICK, AND HE NEVER TOLD ME THAT WE WERE THROUGH, OH I'M GONNA CUT THE FOOL ON HIS ****. NOT RIGHT THEN AND THERE BECAUSE I DON'T WANNA EMBARASS MYSELF, BUT LATER ON, OH IT'S ON.
BUT THEN U HAVE THE PSYCHO CHICKS. EVEN IF THE BOY REPEATEDLY TELLS HER ITS OVER, SHE STILL WANTS TO CUT THE FOOL ON HIM.
Actually... I just had a similar problem. This girl that I was talkin to got mad at me because she hasn't talked to me since Christmas Eve. Does the phone not go the other way for you people? :? How in the hell she has any kind of right to be **** at me I don't know. She rarely called me, I had to call her. If I'm within the viscinity of her school and didn't call her, that was my ****. But she's gotta go through Greensboro to get home and I don't even so much as get a conjugal visit. I mention taking someone else out (not necessarilypartaking in the action) and she gets jealous and asks why I don't take her out. But she just wanted to be friends... Didn't even get a damn make out session out of her. :? What tha'?! Lemme stop before I get all bothered... :evil:
A person can't help the way they feel in their heart. It's hard to let a relationship go and then see the same person you spent time with and cared for, go out and give those same feelings to another person.
It's completely normal to feel a measure of anger or jealousy or whatever.....what matters is what you do with those feelings. If you start buggin out over it and get all outta control with ya feelings, then you done took it too far.
Actually... I just had a similar problem. This girl that I was talkin to got mad at me because she hasn't talked to me since Christmas Eve. Does the phone not go the other way for you people? :? How in the hell she has any kind of right to be **** at me I don't know. She rarely called me, I had to call her. If I'm within the viscinity of her school and didn't call her, that was my ****. But she's gotta go through Greensboro to get home and I don't even so much as get a conjugal visit. I mention taking someone else out (not necessarilypartaking in the action) and she gets jealous and asks why I don't take her out. But she just wanted to be friends... Didn't even get a damn make out session out of her. :? What tha'?! Lemme stop before I get all bothered... :evil:
*Nods* I just wanna be the dude that shows all the Double Standards in life just so we know that theres something wrong with it. Even if I cant do anything about it, I wont let people go through life not acknowledging the things they do wrong. *pats your back* It happens to the best of us.
My EX is that way...
When I see her with her male friends, she tries to put on a show liKe it's supposed to bother me in any way... SHe wants it to bother me but I brush stupid $#!T off my shoulders.
Now on the OTHER HAND, When she see's ME out with a female friend she always wanna be informed as to who is this and what is our status... :? ...I be liKe
"Who are you? You are no longer my girl... Beat it"
I also found out she does this cuz she really wants me bacK but doesn't want to admit to her true feelings, but its cool cuz I'm chillin'
