Women dont know what they want; they never have and probably never will. They are the most indecisive group on this planet. That's why it is up to us as men to decide for them.
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k...i'll try to stop clownin for a **** and address the question at hand. As for what college educated women are looking for in a man these days...I cannot tell you that. Why? Because even tho i'm a fan of Chaka (as well as Whitney...the old one tho), I am NOT every woman lol. So I cannot speak for every woman in college and say what she is looking for in a man and what she wants. Are there some college educated women who have a thing for thugs and men who are a lil rough around the edges? Sure. Are there some who prefer a man with a degree? Of course. Different strokes for different folks.
They key isn't finding out what every woman wants...it's finding out what THEE woman wants. Because every college educated woman isn't for you. But there is certainly one out there who is, and once you find her, it's important to know her, understand her, and find out what makes her tick. You can't please em all, but you can definately attempt to please the one you're with
Furthermore, i'm gonna pretend like i didn't see that post of urs Truth
Although I am not a college student yet I believe that any self respecting college woman above any other qualities (besides being pleasing to the eye, practicing excellent hygiene and at least having enough sense to hold an intelligent convo) is respect regaurdless of the young man being a **** or an educated black man because many girls will say yeah im tired of them thugish @$$ dudes and try out a "educated black man" and they end up being a total dissapointment the only difference in the two is the fact that one graduated from college and holds a degree but at the same time an educated black man can very well be ...worse...than a so called **** it all depends on the inner person and what that specific woman yearns for and what she values and what she personally yearns for in a man.... so there thats my lil 2 cents.