Well, in my personal opinion, as far as frats go, I like the Kappas. Only cuz my older brother is one and thats what i'm used to being around. The ones I know seem very clean cut, laid back, and where i'm from, they are usually fine too. But thats from a girl's point of view. I don't know much about frats so maybe i'm not the best person to answer that. Now bands?????? I'm VERY VERY biased. I love the Southern University HUman Jukebox. I always have. I and a lot of others use them as a measuring stick for other bands. But thats just me, i'm gonna be partial to them cuz.....well, just look at my screenname. lol.
when it comes to frats the only way to find the best frat for you is to do that research, go to a frat function, and talk to a member 1on 1 and think about what org. fits your style, YOUR personality (Not theirs), and your values and beliefs.
Now as for bands, Southern is good, but dont sleep on NCA&TSU Blue and Gold Marching Machine and the rest of the MEAC bands