ok from the guys forums, and my guy friends/ex boyfriends i've noticed that they all are searching for a dime. BUT many of the guys seaching for a dime are no more than a 5 themselves. Why do you girls think guys are like this? Do they think they look better than they do? Or are they just bold? From personal experience it seems the lower a guy is on the scale the more courage he has in approaching a girl. Then the guys that me and my friends drool over haven't EVER had a a girlfriend. What's the deal? Why all the busted dudes going for dimes, and the fine guys acting shy?
Well uh, if you all dont mind my heterozygous XY gender phenotype in tha buildin', I have to say that for me a personality can change the way you look. And as far as the girl I'd approach, she'd probally hav to do something other than wear cute make up... Like be outgoing maybe, enjoy smiling... Iono, thats jus Bison Beezy...
Ladies, I hope you don’t mind me adding to the dialogue. Everyone has their own definition of a dime. In order to be a dime, you must possess personality and beauty. As far as the boldness of a guy, it’s all about taking chances. If a guy has a difficult time finding a lady, he has to become bold and take chances in order to find a mate. It only takes one yes to change your situation. Therefore, you have to work hard for the prize. On the contrary, if a guy is use to receiving attention from women, he is use to not working hard to find a lady. Therefore, he does not have to be aggressive. From his perspective, ladies will come to him. However, I am speaking in general terms so this does not apply to all men.
"Everyone has their own definition of a dime."
It's all about self-confidence! If a penny thinks they can pull a dime, then don't hate the playa, hate the game! That goes for men and women.
in my experience, men who look like flava flav but come at you like they look shemar moore have a little more to offer ahem, downstairs. i guess they feel like thats all it takes to make a woman happy
*cackles* That is all it takes to make some women happy. If more and more of you keep settling for less and less, then the poorer the quality of male you'll continue to come across on a more consistent basis.
lol
that so true by be the boldest and ugliest ones in the group
Everyone has their own definition of a dime. In order to be a dime, you must possess personality and beauty. As far as the boldness of a guy, it’s all about taking chances. If a guy has a difficult time finding a lady, he has to become bold and take chances in order to find a mate. It only takes one yes to change your situation. Therefore, you have to work hard for the prize. On the contrary, if a guy is use to receiving attention from women, he is use to not working hard to find a lady. Therefore, he does not have to be aggressive. From his perspective, ladies will come to him. However, I am speaking in general terms so this does not apply to all men.
