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Before he cheats.. Posted on 04-13-2008

MiA_theGREAT
Hustletown, TX
So we've all seen how Angie served ol' dude in Waiting to Exhale, and heard all the songs about revenge on some dog **** man . My question is this ladies: would you or have you ever made a man really regret cheating on you by destroying his property or causing him bodily harm? and is a man justified in doing the same if a woman cheats on him ?
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sweet_honeybu from Riverside, CA replied on 04-13-2008 09:11PM [Reply]

would i? lol um probably not if he was just my boyfriend... but if he was my husband, fiance,... oooh ol dude is gon get it lol.. but have I no...
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smc112 from Laguana Hills, CA replied on 04-14-2008 01:53PM [Reply]
I've never caught any of my former boyfriends cheating but there are the tell tale signs such as him not calling as much, especially if he called all the time. Anyway, I never got mad at them enough to do any "Waiting to Exhale" type of stuff! LOL Most of the times I was probably cheating too! LOL So anyway instead of going to jail, the best thing to do is walk on! As that song says, "Walk on by...."
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replied on 04-14-2008 11:45PM [Reply]
Yeah, I'd rather stay on the legal side of things. All I'm going to do is leave him. To destroy his property is to say that I cared more than I actually did. Sure, it hurts but putting his car through a wood chipper ain't gonna change the fact that he cheated. It might make me feel better though. Might.
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Jamaican Shawty replied on 04-15-2008 07:49PM [Reply]
cheating is wrong but people do it neway
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MiA_theGREAT from Hustletown, TX replied on 04-15-2008 07:57PM [Reply]

well morally i guess you should really just turn the other cheek, and if he hurt you that bad- end it. howeverrrrrr, in the heat of the moment i have broken a cell phone used to stray and inflicted minor facial abrasion damage. :ahem: i say its fortunate that especially in marriages, the court tends to side with the woman! ha! & as for a man doing some ish in return..well that wouldn't even be an issue. i don't know what it is with men, but i feel like the only reason i'd have to cheat is due to lack of interest. in that case i'd just break up with the dude, not mess around behind his back! geez..
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MiA_theGREAT from Hustletown, TX replied on 04-15-2008 07:59PM [Reply]

i*heart*pie wrote:
...putting his car through a wood chipper...
GOOD IDEER!
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smc112 from Laguana Hills, CA replied on 04-16-2008 06:14PM [Reply]
MiA_theGREAT wrote:
howeverrrrrr, in the heat of the moment i have broken a cell phone used to stray and inflicted minor facial abrasion damage.
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You sound like Naomi Campbell.
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BisonBoy from norfolk, VA replied on 04-17-2008 07:13AM [Reply]

Well if u all dont mind my heterozygous XY gender phenotypes in tha buildin... If he cheated, and you caught him in the act, dont you think tha fact that you spilled salt on his game with the other girl is enough pain for one man to bear... .
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SuperFly replied on 04-17-2008 12:21PM [Reply]
If you lack the ability to keep the attention of a dog, how can you get mad at him? Not saying that anyone deserves to be cheated on... but I never hear of anyone reflecting on themselves and learning from the situation. Then you end up in the same situation with another dude and get twice as **** off because its happened for the second time. *shrugs* But what do I know? I only get the repercussions from the bullsh*t that someone else has performed.
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