You like them, now what?

L.A. Youth writers share their advice on dating and asking someone out. Girls, when a guy asks you out, try not to be too harsh when you tell him you’re not interested. You could say “I see you only as a friend,” “I think you’re really cool but at this time I’m not looking for a relationship,” or “You’re really awesome but I just don’t see us meshing.” Try to be nice when you’re gonna turn down a guy because it’s nervewracking enough to ask you out. Luis Pineda, 16, Hollywood HS Be friends before you start dating. When both people know each other from the start of a relationship, there are no pretenses or skewed expectations. Everything will be more natural and fun. No matter what happens, whether feelings start to fade or not, at least you will know you have a good friend. Edison Mellor-Goldman, 16, Los Angeles Center for Enriched Studies Complete story: LA Youth :: great teen journalism by and about Los Angeles teens