I decided to add to the lists and requests for suggestions regarding the misguided male species or who I like to call "men imposters".
If you can think of anything else ladies please feel free to add- If you have graduated from boyfriends to real men then you will totally understand this list. I tell yah what you need to know, not what you want to hear so if you are offended you need to take a moment and figure out why.......you might learn something about yourself.
YOU MAY BE THE FIRST REAL WOMEN HE HAS MET IF........
1. After just asking you for your name, he asks for your number and you ask him for what?.......
-the point: I require a conversation so I can make an informed decision on whether I want to continue talking to you. I take action, not reaction.
2. You do not call or text him every minute of everyday or even everyday
-the point: I dont need supervision nor do I want a man that has to be supervised. Obviously he is not doing enough with himself and has too much time on his hands. I am grinding towards becoming a professional-business owner and lawyer therefore I have to do this thing called studying.
3. He asking about your friends to hook up with his friends and you respond "get yourself on first before you start recruiting"
-the point: I am not match.com and this aint the dating game. If you paying me a finders fee I can see what I can do for your boys but in the meantime you need to focus on your interview
4. You dont mind if he is broke.......because of taking care of responsibilities
-the point: I give props to any guy that is paying his NECESSARY bills before balling. I rather have a debt-free broke now dude than a balling towards bankruptcy now dude because as soon as you pay off your debts guess what...you aint gonna be broke for long. The guys with money living with two roommates in a one room apartment, riding on 24"s **** me for real......get it together
5. He says he owns a playstation, nintendo wii, xbox or another game system that is played on a daily basis and then you walk away
-the point: I know there is some other goal you can be working on besides the latest Madden. Like getting your own place and building some equity-refer to number 4. Most of the time these are the guys that have the roommates.
6. You decline an invitation to his place for a first date or too soon after you first meet.
-the point: Anyone with standards and self-respect would be careful about inviting random people over to their place. This is a safety and privacy issue. These are the guys that usually have the "crazy-ex, crazy baby mamma or crazy girl they were just fooling around with" stalker situation. If you take time and get to know people you will find out that no one can hide being crazy very long.
7. You refuse to answer that lame-**** question: "what type of man do you like?"
-the point: seriously....you expect me to give you the blue prints to what type of man I am attracted to so you can mimic what I say. How about I like the type of man that does not ask that silly question in hopes of finding a shortcut.
That's what I have for now ladies.....now set it off!!!!!!!
