For people that were like me, the people that did not have a clue what a Fraternity was truly about and how they could join one..he's some inside info...I hope you all find it usefull
You can’t spell “Brothers” without at the same time spelling “others”
Fraternities and certain civic groups have always provided a special place for men who want and need to enjoy “guy things.” These types of groups also help bolster your network of professional friends, from those on college campuses to corporate boardrooms, and often offers support not found in traditional places.
Fraternities, (atleast African-American ones) provide a close-knit sense of bonding like no other found in human existence. There are often times that “brothers” in fraternities can share ideas, thoughts, and feelings with fellow “frats” that they cannot share with their family members.
Also brothers in a fraternity(from the Divine 9) and other fraternal organizations will always be there to help you. However, there are some limits. A quick joke:
“If your brother has a CAR, you have a CAR; If your brother has a DOLLAR, you have a DOLLAR; If you brother has a chick..Well..”
Overall, most African-American member-based groups not only offer the personal, lifelong, lasting friendships that provide a pillar of assistance to individuals of “like minds”, they also provide a service to those around them and those in need. See, it’s just like playing a game of basketball, getting together for a spades tournament once a month, participating in fellowship with others in church, being active in a fraternal order or civic group can offer a man a sense of belonging to a community. So, Check ALL OF THEM out….
How To Get In
:arrow: Talk with a buddy or relative who is already involved in a fraternal order or civic group. Have him introduce you to some of the members to get their perspectives on the group.
:arrow: Review the tenets of different groups to see if they fit YOUR interests, philosophies, and ideas.
:arrow: Be ACTIVE with organizations that do important work in your community, even if you are not a member or don’t wish to become one…
Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Inc. 1906
Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc. 1911
Omega Psi Phi Fraternity Inc. 1911
Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. 1914
Iota Phi Theta Fraternity Inc. 1963
Remember, there isn't a such thing as the BEST Frat..Find one that works for YOU!!!!!
Yess, Finally a post to end those dumb questions
that newbies always ask the board. ie:
What Sorority should I join?
What does XYZ fraternity do?
How do I get into a particular org?
Very good info, Iota. (Btw, I've NEVER met an Iota that I didn't like. Y'all are some pretty chill dudes. ) Hopefully it'll help curb some of those question that don't need to be asked.