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The Crying Game Posted on 10-30-2008
C Nels

Ladies Ladies Ladies! What's happnin?! Question for you... What do you think of men who cry? Do you think it is a sign of weakness? Would you lose any respect for him? Do you think that it's "cute" for a man to cry? Could you be with a man who cries for every little thing? Fellas, can you remember the last time you cried? Speak on it!
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NCBabyAggie replied on 10-30-2008 09:04PM [Reply]
Personally, I wouldn't want to be with a dude who cries all the time but ironically I am and its get irritating and old . I think if men do it too often then it is a sign of weakness. They are proving that they can't handle what’s being put in front of them so they resort to crying about it instead of handling there business. I think at certain times its cool for a dude to cry but if he crying at every little thing that stresses him out, he needs to do something about that.
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replied on 11-01-2008 12:56PM [Reply]
C_Nels wrote:
Ladies Ladies Ladies! What's happnin?! Question for you... What do you think of men who cry? Do you think it is a sign of weakness? Would you lose any respect for him? Do you think that it's "cute" for a man to cry? Could you be with a man who cries for every little thing? Fellas, can you remember the last time you cried? Speak on it!
Real men cry. Nothing in life is so bearable that you would never shed a few tears over it. I don't think it's a sign of weakness...the tear ducts are there for a reason. Lose respect? Nah, he'd gain it. Those who can cry are often stronger than the ones try and hold it in. Cute? No. Not even. Um, no. I kinda need one of us to be the rock at some point and if you're crying all over me all the dayum time...
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sweet_honeybu from Riverside, CA replied on 11-04-2008 09:27PM [Reply]

crying is not a sign of weakness... it shows that a man is connected with his emotions and not with his pride, i dislike a prideful man. but there is a time to cry and a time to take it in and be strong... he wouldnt lose my respect... but no crying is never cute, but it is not a weakness
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cc1997mav replied on 11-19-2008 08:25PM [Reply]
I respect a man more who feels comfortable enough in his manhood to shed some tears over things that really matter. If he's crying "over every little thing," then he probably needs to get a psychologist or medical doctor involved. Just like if a woman is crying "over every little thing." That's not normal and indicates an emotional problem or some kind of physiological (?) imbalance for what governs the emotions. Like there might be a depression problem goin' on, or somethin'... But in general, if a dude can cry sometimes, it's alright with me.
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KaliBabi replied on 06-15-2009 12:17AM [Reply]
i would respect a guy more if I was to see him cry because it shows you that he has feelings and that he's passionate about something...crying all the time I would have a problem with though, male or female! Suck it up!
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replied on 06-15-2009 10:50AM [Reply]
Tears Of A Man Have you ever sat and wondered why A boy was taught to never cry. To see a tear fall from his eye They say is weakness, but I'll deny. The fact of this is so unfair, because it's right for boys to care. For when he grows to be a man A woman needs a gentle hand. She'll help him up when he is down and wipe away the tears and the frown. This does not make him less of a man. It only means to love he can... Jerressa Hadnot Copyright ©2009 Jerressa Hadnot addthis_pub = 'sayyes943'; BY YOURS TRULY......
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MariaBR replied on 06-15-2009 03:37PM [Reply]
Umm...To be honest It really depends on what they are crying for because that makes a huge difference. How often... once again it depends on what is happening to him at the time. But I don't like it when ANYONE cries over little things. I rarely cry because I don't like to show that I am upset but when I do it is serious, so if I'm not crying over it you bet not be either lol. But please wait till you get home or somewhere private unless its at a funeral or you are in excrutiating pain. But people who are crybabies I don't feel are strong, men and women.
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MariaBR replied on 06-15-2009 03:47PM [Reply]
Oh but it is okay if he is getting saved at the alter or giving his life over to God because thats big and you can't help it if God is moving you. Now he would def gain respect for that...I am a terrible christian for feeling this way but that is a turn on lol.
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C Nels replied on 06-16-2009 05:21AM [Reply]
Chargeit2thagame wrote:
Tears Of A Man BY YOURS TRULY......
Nice poemetry!
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