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DATING WHITE PEOPLE!! Posted on 06-25-2004
chrittypie

WHAT DO YA'LL THINK ABOUT DATING PEOPLE WHO ARE WHITE? DO YOU THINK ITS A COP OUT FOR SISTAHS WHO CAN'T FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN OR DO U THINK ITS A WAY FOR BRUHS TO GET SOME GOOD HEAD (BASED ON MYTHS ABOUT WHITE GIRLS). I WANNA KNOW B/C I SEE MORE BRUHS TURNIN TO WHITE GIRLS EVEN AT HBCUs. TELL ME WHATS GOOD
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replied on 06-25-2004 04:08PM [Reply]
To me, I don't see what the problem is because it should not matter what the race, origin, creed, etc. because it really matters what the person is about. Since I have started the dating game way back in middle school, I have 3 white girls, 1 hispanic, 1 german, 1 mexican, and 2 mixed girls. If you don't ever date outside your race or if you are against interracial dating, then you are being racist in a sense........................ STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, Think about it.......................
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NeoSoulBrotha replied on 06-25-2004 04:28PM [Reply]
I think that you see more interracial dating because... 1. More people have open minds to it, and... 2. Many Whites are specifically looking for Black partners, especially White women. For an example, go to a dating web site such as hotornot.com and type in keyword "Black men". As we become a more diverse society, many of the barriers (social stigma, income level, etc) towards miscegenation (sp?) are breaking down. As a result, more Black people are finding themselves working and living in places with more cultural variance, and nature takes its course. Holla!
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chrittypie replied on 06-25-2004 04:51PM [Reply]
First of, let me apologize for putting white people in my title, i should have put something like multiracial. I agree with the fact that as we get more diverse, interrracial relationships become more common. But it seems like black men in particular are using white females b/c they can't find any black women who'll do what they want....same with black women. THey try to find white men b/c they supposedly have money. I've noticed that a lot especially at my school Morgan STate. Fellas, do you all feel angry to see a sistah with a white man?
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In Rod We Trust replied on 06-25-2004 09:10PM [Reply]
^^^^^^^^^^ Guess she aint seen her prize :roll: :roll: http://www.hbcu-central.com/cafe/viewtopic.php?p=250533&highlight=#250533
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veron23 replied on 06-26-2004 03:14AM [Reply]
chrittypie wrote:
WHAT DO YA'LL THINK ABOUT DATING PEOPLE WHO ARE WHITE? DO YOU THINK ITS A COP OUT FOR SISTAHS WHO CAN'T FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN OR DO U THINK ITS A WAY FOR BRUHS TO GET SOME GOOD HEAD (BASED ON MYTHS ABOUT WHITE GIRLS). I WANNA KNOW B/C I SEE MORE BRUHS TURNIN TO WHITE GIRLS EVEN AT HBCUs. TELL ME WHATS GOOD
Why cant you just date someone whitout looking at skin color?Black women are not responsible to black men for jack,a black woman can date whomsoever she wants to,it is no one elses business.
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Wisdom_Tree replied on 06-26-2004 02:18PM [Reply]
I was caught in a decision a while ago when I was dating my ex... My dad took me to this Greek restaurant and we sat down (I think I had turned 17?) and we talked about my white girlfriend and he was like "Son, why cant you just get you a good black woman?" and at first I was like "Well, I havent found any yet." Retracted that statement. Then said, "I have a certain style that very little can mesh with even if they see me as compatabile from afar. She just happens to be everything I could want a need right now and it has nothing to do with her race." Dad sat back as the Gyros came and we both said grace before he looked outside to see a round-assed woman walk by the window, a mighty specimen. I looked up too, gave the booty my seal of approval (a simple nod) and I went back to dissecting my food. Dad was like, "Son, do you believe that a White Woman can give you something that a Black Woman cant?" "No! Hell naw dad, no, its not that. I dont see things like you or Donna do. I just look for a woman who is selfish with me and keeps me close to her heart unlike anyone else. Someone who I can trust every word she can say and she does the same for me and whenever her girlfriends get jealous and lie to her she'll come and ask me about the situation before setting my things on fire." "See Son, thats a stereotype you have about black women - that theyll set your clothes on fire." We both paused to laugh. "Okay," Dad started, eating on his food and pausing before starting again. "Maybe youve dealt with alot more attitude then you are used to, but she can relate to you better than any White Woman can." "Maybe, maybe not. Not everyone had to struggle because of their skin and my girlfriend had to go through weeks of being "detoxed" because she was a Russian citizen. Theyve seen more than even I have, so she appreciates everything...I think its one of her more admirable traits. Plus she has a vicious mind for debate and just speaking." Dad nodded, chuckling at me under his eyelids. "Well, if she makes you happen I suppose you can bring her home. Be warned, youll still get joked on." "I know Dad...you people have no shame." :arrow: (just felt that convo pretty much shaped my opinions. Im more swayed towards people that are ACTUALLY down to earth.) :arrow:
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replied on 06-27-2004 12:56AM [Reply]
My boyfriend is white, and sometimes I forget that we are different races.... until someone reminds us likes it is a bad thing.
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R-Tistic replied on 06-27-2004 02:48AM [Reply]
I think it's just a changing society. Other races are startin to date a lot more, such as asian and white, white and hispanic, etc etc. Thing is, it will always be a sensitive issue in the black community. Whenever a black dude sees a black girl with a white guy he's like "that foo must be simpin wit her, buyin her everything she want and probably ain't gettin none." And black females still see a black dude with a white girl and say that they can't handle a black woman and they are not good enough for them, etc. etc. I don't really think it's anything wrong with it, unless they hook up for the wrong reasons. But I still hope to find a black woman, and I don't really eye females of other races. I might say "dam she look kinda good for a white girl" but it stops there. Now if I just end up talkin to somebody who's not black and end up havin feelings for em, I'm not gonna reject em just because they aren't black, but I just relate a lot better to black females in general.
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chrittypie replied on 06-28-2004 01:18PM [Reply]
this is great b/c i think that a lot of times black women never get to actually hear the explanation behind interracial dating ya mean? I've never even heard some of these arguements and I think its good b/c a lot of people are ignorant when it comes to interracial dating. Me myself, I don't have a problem with dating white guys or any guy who isnt black just as long as he respects me and vice versa.
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