Try to work it out.. well.. actually, ask him point blank if he has someone in mind... I would take the break.. I mean.. If you let it go and it comes back to you, ITS YOURS..... If y'all don't get back together, then he wasn't the one for you.... check the siggy
well i had tha situation wen it was about time for me to go to skool...i think u should talk it out....cuz if he love u and u love him ya'll would probably decide to stay together....and explain to him tha u can handle watever comes ur way while u're away at skool....hey but if its meant to be it'll be.... :arrow:
I WISH U THE BEST OF LUCK WITH WAT YA'LL DECIDE TO DO...
Try to work it out.. well.. actually, ask him point blank if he has someone in mind... I would take the break.. I mean.. If you let it go and it comes back to you, ITS YOURS..... If y'all don't get back together, then he wasn't the one for you.... check the siggy
I've pretty much thought of that but it's like...when you've done so much for a person...when you've been their everything and their only...and they could just get wit somebody else like that...wouldn't it **** you off???? That's why I'm not too hooked on this whole let's take a break thing but I do understand where he's coming from. I'm just worried about tha after affects...like when it's over and done wit, will I see him again? Cuz ya'll gotta understand, this cat has been wit me thru sum of the hardest times of my life and with him vice versa and to just give all of that up on a whim cuz we are both afraid of what's gonna happen over tha next couple of months...I just can't DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO IS OLDER, AND HAS BEEN WHERE U ARE:
YOU ARE YOUNG AND HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU, SO WHY ARE TRYING TO BE TIED DOWN TO ONE PERSON RIGHT NOW? I MEAN, I KNOW THAT HE IS YOUR "HEART" AND EVERYTHING AND U LOVE HIM, BUT SWEETIE, WHEN U GET TO COLLEGE, THIS IS SUPPOSE TO BE THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE, HAVE FUN. DON'T SIT AROUND WONDERING WHAT HE 'S DOING OR IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GONNA SURVIVE. YOU MAY THINK I'M WRONG, BUT WHEN U GET TO COLLEGE, AFTER ABOUT A YEAR OR TWO, U ARE GONNA MEET A HELL OF A LOT OF PEOPLE AND YOUR BOYFRIEND MAY BECOME OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND.
LIKE SOMEONE STATED BEFORE IF U LOVE SOMETHING LET IT GO,AND IF IT WAS MEANT TO BE , YOU ALL WILL BE TOGETHER WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND DONE. BECAUSE COME ON NOW, BE HONEST, DO REALLY THINK HE'S GOING TO BE "FAITHFUL" TO YOU 7 HOURS AWAY? IT ALREADY SOUNDS LIKE HE'S READY TO GIVE UP.
BREAK UP...
And Im not even saying that cause yall couldnt make a long distance relationship work, cause it is very possible. I think breaking up is best cause you going to college, and your gonna meet so many new people and new guys. But you are gonna limit yourself to maybe meeting your " future husband "cause you are holding on to an old relationship. I say this from what I see with my friends all the time. Your young, and Im sure you dont wanna feel like you are " missing out " cause you are holding onto a relationship that is 7 hours away. I feel like, you should go to college single, cause you never know who you may meet. And if you and your current boyfriend are meant to be, yall will be. But you will never know if sumthing better is out there, if you dont see for yourself. Good Luck. :wink:
I'm sure that he has been w/ you through ruff times, but is that worth compromising your happiness over? I mean.. if y'all are together but you know he feels restricted, then you aren't going to be happy.. If you are away from him, you are always going to be wondering who he's with.. Not saying that this would happen, but, would you rather be w/ him and have him cheat on you 7 hours away or would you rather be separated and free to do what comes.....
I know this girl that stayed thru an abusive relationship (I know yours isn't) and compromised HER LIFE.. she cut off ties w/ her parents, dropped out of school, moved to ANOTHER STATE w/ him, and is currently depressed w/o a job and in the hospital for attempted ****.. all because he'd been w/ her thru ruff times... Everyone told her he wasn't good for her, but she stayed w/ him regardless...
If y'all have a good friendship, then the distance won't do anything to stop the love from being there... but if it is solely based on a sense of obligation.. don't hurt yourself... you don't know what tomorrow might bring..
DAMN THIS IS THE MOST LOVE I'VE EVER GOTTEN ON HBCU!!!!!!
JUST CALL ME MS. ADVICE! IF YOU'VE GOT LOVE PROBLEMS OR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS, CALL ON ME!!!!!!! BECAUSE I'VE EXPERIENCED WHAT HALF OF YOU ALL IN HERE ARE GOING THROUGH!!!!
Sorry...skimmed through this whole post
but what's the point of getting back together x-mas break only to be together 3 weeks then head back to school?
