Scenario:
Ok lets say you and your man have been together for a while....not quite a year, but gettin there. And ya'll broke up over somethin that YOU-yes you did. You didnt cheat, you lied to him about somethin (this is not the first time) and didnt tell him about somethin right away. Well he tells you that he might f*ck this nasty hoe-that he use to mess around with before you two got together. You ask why of course....he says not to get back at you-but for him. So he wont feel so bad about the situation. You say well doesnt that make it worse than help it-he tells you that should make you want him(to be back with him) more, and for you not to mess up no more so he wont do that. He asks this is cool and you wont get mad cuz u messed up.
Ladies, what would you do-or what do you u think? :?
Okay I understand him trying to teach you a lesson...but to sleep with someone just to make you jealous is childish. He should evaluate the situation, find out if he wants to be with the girl or not (work it out or leave for good) Playing games only gets you so far, because sooner or later its GAME OVER..
FLIP FLIP FLIP..
:roll: sorry...
Totally unacceptable! I would have to drop him like a bad habit......I don't have time for nonsense like that. (Using you as an example....not trying to assume anything -->) But, if you allow him to do that, then every time he feels that you have done something "wrong", he'll think it's okay to go sleep around. Besides, if he feels so inclined to sleep with someone else if you gave him the go-ahead, then he might not hesitate to cheat on you when you guys are actually together. Plus with all of these STDs going around, I just can't risk a guy who wants to sleep with "nasty hoes".......I care about myself and my well being more than anything.
^^girl u crazy...
i kinda understand where he's cumin from, u kno why he's hurt, but he's definitely goin about it the wrong way. his rationale is juvenile and childish, boys will be boys...but u don't need 2 put up wit the games.
True true-this isnt about me btw, a friend of mines was in this prediciment and jus wondering what other peoples opinions where on it. I thought it was crazy, but i understood that he was hurt **** still....yes she may have messed up-lying and kept somethin from him-but my girl is a goood girl to her man. She doesnt cheat on him, loves him to death-i mean they look perfect together. And he says he that he was fed up with the way she treated him....so he had to what he did as a "wake up call" to her to get her act together. :evil:
oh hecky hell naw! He's out of line. And what's up with this whole "teachin u a lesson so u can get your act togetha" nonsense? I'd be like "Negro, this ain't school and you are NOT the teacher! No lessons gonna be taught around these parts". That is straight immature. "...baby i love u, and i want u to appreciate how good i am to you. So how about i cheat on u wit a nasty hoe real quick...ya know, just to show what a good boyfriend i am". Negro please!
