What if you got pregnant right now at this present time in ur life....what would u do? Would u get an ****? Keep it? COntinue and/or go off to school? Give it up for adoption? K.I.D.S. is real, and so many people is gettin knocked up-its like an epidemic or somethin....and im sure u all know or see around you peeps u graduated with and now they "mommy", but what if that became you...what would u do? :? (i'll state my answer later :wink: )
and sorry if this has been asked already
I'll put it like this, u can NEVER really say what u would do in a situation, til u've been put in that situation. I've never been pregnant and right now is NOT the time. I'm starting to get established on my own.
2 jobs, my own place, my own car.... If that hit me right now, I can't say 100% that I'd keep the baby. I'm not in the position to give that child the best of me yet.
I would be scared but i would keep my baby. I've had soo many friends that got pregnant during high school...and they aborted their baby. And it still haunts them til this day. So i would keep my unborn child! Even though i think it would be hard to take care of a child. Especially cause i struggle wit takin care of myself. SO that would be very hard for me...i need to mature more! AND GAIN PATIENCE!
I see it like this, if I got pregnant I would keep my child because I would except responsibility for what I did. I figure if I am not ready to have a child than I should be more careful. Something like that should never be taken likely and even if I had a bright future ahead I would just have to work even harder along the way just to make my goals and dreams. Anyhow I know that is not going to happen because when I hvae children I am definately going to be married.
well if i was pregnant right now..i would just have to take the consequences..i would keep my child..and just have to put college off and then go back at a later time...and for my situation is not good..cuz im bouts to be a rising senior in highschool with no license, no car, and no JOB!!!!...which would mean i would be on welfare and tryin to find a job..and i dont want that for my life..smh
I'd be scared, but I'd just have to deal...I knew the consequence of my actions before I committed "THE ACT". I would keep the child b/c for me **** is not an option. I'm not against it for other people, but its just not something I'd feel comfortable doing. I also couldn't give it up for adoption b/c I wouldn't be able to live knowing that my child is out there living with someone else without me. That's just me though!
I'll put it like this, u can NEVER really say what u would do in a situation, til u've been put in that situation. I've never been pregnant and right now is NOT the time. I'm starting to get established on my own.
2 jobs, my own place, my own car.... If that hit me right now, I can't say 100% that I'd keep the baby. I'm not in the position to give that child the best of me yet.
I agree 100%. I need to get things going the way I want them to go before I can even THINK of being a mother.