Ok well me and me and friend was on the phone one day and she decided to call my boyfriend. So she called and when he asked who it was she decided to say another girls name(just a name off the top of her head)and says her name is lashonda and it turned out he really knew a girl named Lashonda and was like how you doin and stuff like that and so my friend didnt even know what to say and so i told her to keep actin like lashonda and ask him if he has a girlfriend and things like that just to see what he would say. So she asks him and he says he has a girlfriend. He does say he has a girlfriend but then she asks him if he wants another one and this he says yeah he dont care. And he was like well when can i see u and and she said she was goin to come over that weekend and and he was like well bring somethin 2 sleep in cuz your sleepn with me this weekend and he kept saying stuff like that so she was like alright well i'll meet you at the mall and then we can go to the house he was like alright. So i'm like ok this nucca wanna play so then then i call him and act i dont know wat just happend and was like so what you bout to do this weekend and he gonna tell me he goin out of town so i was like alright and told him i'd call him back . so then I call my best friend and was like well what should I do and she was like well just break up with him cuz this wasnt even the first time somethin like this had happend. so i thought about it and called him back and told him I knew about Lashonda and just went off on him. and he gonna tell me they wasnt even gonna do anything he just wanted to see what she looked like cuz he hadnt seen her in a long time. So we just go on arguing and he was like well I stil love you and care for you and things like that. and I talked to his brother and his brother said he dont think he wouldve cheated on me, but and i was like this aint even gon work and broke up with him anyway........ So did I bring this whole situation on myself by lettin my friend act like Lashonda or was I right for breaking up with him.
Ok well me and me and friend was on the phone one day and she decided to call my boyfriend. So she called and when he asked who it was she decided to say another girls name(just a name off the top of her head)and says her name is lashonda and it turned out he really knew a girl named Lashonda and was like how you doin and stuff like that and so my friend didnt even know what to say and so i told her to keep actin like lashonda and ask him if he has a girlfriend and things like that just to see what he would say. So she asks him and he says he has a girlfriend. He does say he has a girlfriend but then she asks him if he wants another one and this he says yeah he dont care. And he was like well when can i see u and and she said she was goin to come over that weekend and and he was like well bring somethin 2 sleep in cuz your sleepn with me this weekend and he kept saying stuff like that so she was like alright well i'll meet you at the mall and then we can go to the house he was like alright. So i'm like ok this nucca wanna play so then then i call him and act i dont know wat just happend and was like so what you bout to do this weekend and he gonna tell me he goin out of town so i was like alright and told him i'd call him back . so then I call my best friend and was like well what should I do and she was like well just break up with him cuz this wasnt even the first time somethin like this had happend. so i thought about it and called him back and told him I knew about Lashonda and just went off on him. and he gonna tell me they wasnt even gonna do anything he just wanted to see what she looked like cuz he hadnt seen her in a long time. So we just go on arguing and he was like well I stil love you and care for you and things like that. and I talked to his brother and his brother said he dont think he wouldve cheated on me, but and i was like this aint even gon work and broke up with him anyway........ So did I bring this whole situation on myself by lettin my friend act like Lashonda or was I right for breaking up with him.
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I believe you brought that on yourself...an associate of mine thought it'd be funny if we played on the phone with her boyfriend...and I asked him if he had a girl (we were on three way) and he said NO
I know her face was broke...but she just ignored it...
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But really he was wrong for that...and I could understand your reasoning because he did LIE to you....and he didn't have that to do
So did I bring this whole situation on myself by lettin my friend act like Lashonda
Yup, and if you didn't think you did, you wouldn't be asking us. Search and you shall find girlfriend....you went searching for some bullshyt (by playing on the phone) and you DEFINITELY FOUND that shyt. But um, good luck and try to grow out of the phone games. :wink:
if you have to do something like that then it means you didnt trust him in the first place, and trust is/ or should be in my opinion the basis for a healthy relationship, if i was your man and you played something like that i would play along and act like i did know a lashonda, and then i would start acting up saying weird things and when you confronted me id ask why you werent trusting me in the first place, and i guess id end the relationship there instead but i dunno maybe thats just me, im not trying to have a relationship with sherlock holmes, and another thing, dont be in a relationship just because you need to be in a relationship, dont be needy, be in a relationship because you two trust each other 100% i get real mad when people doubt my trust
Ok well me and me and friend was on the phone one day and she decided to call my boyfriend. So she called and when he asked who it was she decided to say another girls name(just a name off the top of her head)and says her name is lashonda and it turned out he really knew a girl named Lashonda and was like how you doin and stuff like that and so my friend didnt even know what to say and so i told her to keep actin like lashonda and ask him if he has a girlfriend and things like that just to see what he would say. So she asks him and he says he has a girlfriend. He does say he has a girlfriend but then she asks him if he wants another one and this he says yeah he dont care. And he was like well when can i see u and and she said she was goin to come over that weekend and and he was like well bring somethin 2 sleep in cuz your sleepn with me this weekend and he kept saying stuff like that so she was like alright well i'll meet you at the mall and then we can go to the house he was like alright. So i'm like ok this nucca wanna play so then then i call him and act i dont know wat just happend and was like so what you bout to do this weekend and he gonna tell me he goin out of town so i was like alright and told him i'd call him back . so then I call my best friend and was like well what should I do and she was like well just break up with him cuz this wasnt even the first time somethin like this had happend. so i thought about it and called him back and told him I knew about Lashonda and just went off on him. and he gonna tell me they wasnt even gonna do anything he just wanted to see what she looked like cuz he hadnt seen her in a long time. So we just go on arguing and he was like well I stil love you and care for you and things like that. and I talked to his brother and his brother said he dont think he wouldve cheated on me, but and i was like this aint even gon work and broke up with him anyway........ So did I bring this whole situation on myself by lettin my friend act like Lashonda or was I right for breaking up with him.
Seems like u broke rule #17, neva let ya friends mix with ure relationships.
So did I bring this whole situation on myself by lettin my friend act like Lashonda
Yup, and if you didn't think you did, you wouldn't be asking us. Search and you shall find girlfriend....you went searching for some bullshyt (by playing on the phone) and you DEFINITELY FOUND that shyt. But um, good luck and try to grow out of the phone games. :wink:
AMEN, the good doctor always has an answer! More than I can say for Allen Iverson ****
You want the truth? You can't handle the truth! And that's why shouldn't play on the phone. Like a famous movie once said "never ask a question if you're not prepared to haandle the answer". Oh and never mix your friends and boyfriends. That's trouble waiting to happen.
So your friend just decided to up and call ya man out of the blue? na uh...not cool. That was not her place. The whole thing just sounds extremely juvenile. If yall were that bored...yall shoulda went out, played cards, watch tv...sumthin. However, i do think your breaking up with him was justifiable. Point blank, i think it woulda happened regardless. Mainly becuz u stated that this wasn't the first time that he's dipped in other waters and by the sounds of it...he was prolly swimmin in some other pools anyway. **** u had to find out about it in an immature/petty way, but at least u can move on :arrow:
but i dunno maybe thats just me, im not trying to have a relationship with sherlock holmes, and another thing, dont be in a relationship just because you need to be in a relationship, dont be needy, be in a relationship because you two trust each other 100% i get real mad when people doubt my trust
