Alright listen, I wanna know how ya'll feel about long distance relationships. For ex my boyfriend and I have been together for a year but i'm leavcing for school, now i'll be real its not no i'm in love with him thing, its just a thats my boyfriend and i have feelings for him thing. So basically I been thinking about if I should break it off before I leave, but I don't really know anything about long distant relationships so thats why i'm asking ya'll, have ya'll ever tried it and has it worked out for ya'll, and also whats dating on campus like a bunch of drama or is it alright?P lus I'm leaving August 26th so I don't have long to decide,
I say follow ur heart. I have feelings for my boyfriend too...but I don't want to put his life on hold for me to go to college. So I'll see him during breaks...if he moved on I'll respect that. Follow ur heart. It could be hard to have a long diatance relationship.
Me and my boyfriend will be goin to the same school for the first time this year. Last year he went to VSU-so it wasnt that much of a distance. But like ol girl said-do what u feel is right. If you want to try/do the long distance thing-then go for it -if not lettt it burrrnnnnn.....lol, naw im jus playin. 8)
follow your heart, listen closely to the voice inside and see where it takes you
aha y'all thought i was gettin sentimental with the ish :twisted:
ok enough of that mufasa ish, just wait till you get down to school and see whats good
FOLLOW UR HEART...BUT JUST NOTE...THAT UR GONE BE IN SCHOOL...INTERACTING...WITH BRAND NEW GUYS...AND YES HE'S UR BOYGRIEND...BOUT OUTTA SIGHT IS OUTTA MIND...FOLLOW ME?...AND SAME THING FOR HIM...U DONT WANT HIM TO PUT HIS LIFE ON HOLD...WHILE YOU IN COLLEGE HAVIN A BALL...AND NOT TO WISH IT ON YOU...BUT U'LL PROLLY FIND SUMBODY ELES THAT U WANNA KICK IT WITH...BUT AGAIN...DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT...BUT STILL SMART...ANDTHE RIGHT THING...IS NOT ALWAYS WHAT YOU WANNA DO...
I think that you should follow your heart. But if you're not in love, it's really hard to make a long distance relationship work. There has to be a lot of faith and trust. It might be better to break up. Sometimes you have to think about what you really want to do. Stay up
ride it out as long as it lasts.....but remember they never do. plus you are young, date at least 100 people before deciding that you even want to be semi serious
In a LDR, whatever factors there already were in the relationship are going to be magnified.
In other words, if you are insecure, you will be more so considering that your partner has more time alone with other people, and you have more time to sit there and think about it. If one of you is motivated to cheat, then that motivation is going to be greater because there's more opportunity.
So if there are weaknesses of any kind in the relationship, they will begin to show over time. Not that it is impossible, but it requires effort on both sides. In most bad LDRs there is more effort on one side than another, and the relationship will fail.
However if it's worth it to both people, it can not only be successful but healthy, because absence makes the heart grow fonder. Holla!
I think that you should follow your heart. But if you're not in love, it's really hard to make a long distance relationship work. There has to be a lot of faith and trust. It might be better to break up. Sometimes you have to think about what you really want to do. Stay up
