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GROW SOME BALLS DERN IT! Posted on 08-05-2004
RosieKisses

I can't date a softeeeee! Been there and it was NOT cool at all :| He was on the sensitive/momma's boy type of thang and at first i thought it was cute,but then it got serious If I want a someone who's more on the sensitive side, I'll go to my girl Jasmine :twisted: (was that too much info?) what yall think? Would u like a dude who,when things go wrong, runs like a lil *** :lol: or when you're with him, You feel like the woman and HE's the MAN? 8)
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In Rod We Trust replied on 08-05-2004 01:31PM [Reply]
he had better be the man of the whole enchilada? what the hell? if i wanted a punk i coulda went to the damn supermarket or sumthin and see who was buying pads and ish for they momma.....
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replied on 08-05-2004 01:58PM [Reply]
I feel you, Rosie. I can't stand whiny dudes... it used to be cool in like, the sixth grade, lol. It annoys the hell out of me... and it seems like I can't even keep them as friends. I just wanna slap some masculinity into them... I don't like femininity, unless I'm the one doing it. :x
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Afro-American replied on 08-05-2004 04:28PM [Reply]
if they are say like "screaming like a girl on a universal studios roller coaster" its kinda cute to me lol...but if he's unmasculine like if some guy hits me or calls me a name or something and he doesnt do anything or is scared then that isnt cute at all
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replied on 08-05-2004 04:32PM [Reply]
HU-Queen wrote:
if they are say like "screaming like a girl on a universal studios roller coaster" its kinda cute to me lol...but if he's unmasculine like if some guy hits me or calls me a name or something and he doesnt do anything or is scared then that isnt cute at all
shhhhiiiiiiii....the guy hit you or called you a name he didnt do nothing to me 8) :arrow:
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In Rod We Trust replied on 08-05-2004 04:35PM [Reply]
Yeh I cant have no punk for a guy either.... Lol I want a guy who if he catches another guy lookin at me he gone jap off...dem crazy DMX mofo's
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In Rod We Trust replied on 08-05-2004 04:48PM [Reply]
SoOoO AmAaZiinnnggg wrote:
Yeh I cant have no punk for a guy either.... Lol I want a guy who if he catches another guy lookin at me he gone jap off...dem crazy DMX mofo's
there we go....direct cosigns on that
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NeoSoulBrotha replied on 08-05-2004 09:29PM [Reply]
RosieKisses wrote:
I can't date a softeeeee! Been there and it was NOT cool at all :| He was on the sensitive/momma's boy type of thang and at first i thought it was cute,but then it got serious If I want a someone who's more on the sensitive side, I'll go to my girl Jasmine :twisted: (was that too much info?) what yall think? Would u like a dude who,when things go wrong, runs like a lil B*tch :lol: or when you're with him, You feel like the woman and HE's the MAN? 8)
I'm curious... what do you mean? Like he got his feelings hurt easily, or just couldn't stand up for himself?
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maddbaron from new york, NY replied on 08-06-2004 12:23AM [Reply]
I'm curious as well, so ya'll are saying u want a dude who is madd ruff and a thug? Who will go around just fighting ppl recklessly? Who will fight a dude for looking at u? That makes no sense unless u act on it most men would take that as a compliment. But ya'll are saying u want a man who is so jealous so thug he just fights or does stupid shyt just because? Does hitting you count as well? I've heard women say that but it makes no sense. If yo man picked a fight with a dude with a gun and he was unarmed would u be mad if he ran away from being shot or killed or would u want him shot or killed? U dont want a man to tell u how he feels?Does that make him soft for expressing his feelings? but wont u complain there is no communication?U dont want a dude who is close to his mother? would ya'll please explain?Being a real man means putting urself in bad situations?Thats strange.Explain please...
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replied on 08-06-2004 12:53AM [Reply]
No, we are saying that we want someone who is not afraid to stand up for himself and for his woman... someone who is not controlling, but able to be aggressive if needed. Someone who can understand the true meaning of being a real man... and it is intrinsic, not learned. Usually these men have had a strong paternal upbringing, and the men in their family acted as role models. We are not looking for a rough neck, necessarily (or at least I'm not)... just someone who does not allow others to overstep their boundaries when dealing with him, and, specifically in this case, his woman. It's a respect thing... if you allow others to disrespect you, then what kind of man are you? Petty disrespect from ignorant people can be ignored... it's the major stuff that we are talking about. For instance, someone mentioned violence. If something happens to your girl, and you basically did nothing about it, what kind of a man are you? That's what we're saying. It's that masculinity that attracts me... that vulnerable side that needs to be guarded and protected... and I would feel more secure with a man who understands my needs, and acts accordingly.
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