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HIV testin Posted on 08-13-2004
caramel wonder

last nite i was talkin to my boyfriend and we were talkin about me finally givin him all of me then i asked him if he would get an hiv test for me then he got mad at me he said i didnt trust him that i hurt him by askin him that i jst responded by sayin that if he loved me as much as hes been tellin me then he would do it then he lashed out by sayin that he wnt get such a stupid test for me and yada yada yada........ this isnt the first time this happen(but with another guy) is it just the guys dat i meet that r like that or wtv anyways i was jst wonderin if any other of yalls been in my situation b4 or wut not
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M o o N i e replied on 08-13-2004 11:51AM [Reply]
i got tested b4. i got no prollem wit it. i think he might of just wanted some NOW.... http://hbcu-central.com/cafe/viewtopic.php?t=12760&sid=4b9bc90752b812b1b587047740bc0b9f sorry i just had to plug
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prettypoet8804 replied on 08-13-2004 03:57PM [Reply]
i've had a guy get upset before. i couldn't really understand the rest of what you said because of spelling and stuff but if he didn't go do it, you shouldn't do it. it's really not that serious as he's making it.
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The Big Girl Sweetz replied on 08-13-2004 05:36PM [Reply]
hmmm...if a man/woman who CLAIMS he/she loves you....then an HIV test shouldn't be such a big deal...if for both of yalls protection.... if they spaz out b/c u asked...then...they are not worth it...and just asking get to get an STD
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starsuga82 replied on 08-13-2004 07:34PM [Reply]
^^^Yeah that's some bull that he doesn't to get tested. Does he have something to hide ? A response like that would make me really not trust him then. Plus, not to say you have and diseases, but doesn't he care about his health too, I mean ya'll can both go together and be tested.
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replied on 08-13-2004 09:12PM [Reply]
prettypoet8804 wrote:
i've had a guy get upset before. i couldn't really understand the rest of what you said because of spelling and stuff but if he didn't go do it, you shouldn't do it. it's really not that serious as he's making it.
oops sorry bout da spellin
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jadekiss replied on 08-13-2004 09:42PM [Reply]
Me and my man get tested together every 6 months just because we want to be safe. I think its smart to go get tested with ya partner...or partners *go in a group...you can all hold hands... :?*. Thats if TRUST is involved in the relationship...
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La replied on 08-17-2004 11:00PM [Reply]
Well let this be a blessing in disguise because in today's day in age...you can never be too careful. And since he is so adamant about not testing maybe he does have something to hide. Just food for thought. :wink:
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replied on 08-18-2004 09:12AM [Reply]
Even if you get the test done please still use c*ndoms...and other protective measures.
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