Ok....here's the scenario....
You've been with Johnathan for a long **** time...he's like the perfect man in your eyes...he treats you like a queen...you love him with your whole heart...and you would do anything and everything for him...
Lets say...one day...he decides to leave you...just out of the blue...
Johnathan: baby...this isn't working out...I'm sorry...but we're breaking up....
you are completely blown away...you dont understand...everything was going perfect...
then you find out...the brotha left you for a big girl (full bodied woman)
How would you feel?? Be Honest....
well unless the girl is just gorgeus (and even then sometimes) ex-girlfriends will find sumthin wrong with the new girlfriend regardless. the new girl in ur story being big is just the first thing that the ex-girl will talk about. if she is not big she is dum or a **** or wateva...
me personally would jus b mad cuz i lost someone i cared about but i dunno if it would matta that she is big cuz im not exactly skinny myself.
i dunno if i helped or not ::shrugs:: :arrow:
this guy i dated in high school fooled around on me the whole time and me being young and dumb i didnt know/believe it until the girl confronted me in the cafeteria on a day that he just so happened to not have been in school: well she was heavier then me and i couldnt stand her not be cause she was bigger then me or because she had my boyfriend but i couldnt stand her cause she was bald-headed, bad looking, and dirty and i thought i looked WAY betterr (not that i am conceited or ne thing); and u know in the end i realized he wasnt what i wanted and she could have him cause what he did to me will happen to her...and it did
honestly she could be big or skinny, smart or dumb, she wont be me so ill have a problem with it until someone comes along for me..u know how it is we never see the ex leaving us for someone better in order for it to be right to us they have to have some issue, u know how it is
Knowing me and how nonchalant I am, I would just shrug and say maybe she gives better head... then move on, because there is ALWAYS something better around the corner.
I know it's easier than said than done but let him go and if your relationship is as good as you said it was he will get tired of her and be back but by then you'll have a new man :wink: And it sounds like he got scarred of the lock down and tried to back out.did he ever try to talk to you about it or anything heading toward a break up?
well unless the girl is just gorgeus (and even then sometimes) ex-girlfriends will find sumthin wrong with the new girlfriend regardless. the new girl in ur story being big is just the first thing that the ex-girl will talk about. if she is not big she is dum or a **** or wateva...
me personally would jus b mad cuz i lost someone i cared about but i dunno if it would matta that she is big cuz im not exactly skinny myself.
i dunno if i helped or not ::shrugs:: :arrow:
Co-sign that. I don't usually give a damn about the next chic anyway. I'm too busy moving on to other things so I don't have to think about HIM anymore. The new chic should never even be a factor unless she KNEW yall were together. And if she is tore up then you don't even need to say anything :lol: everyone will be thinking what you're thinking...
Okay, I have a couple of questions.... A.) Was she your friend? and B.) Did you know she was crazy in love with him? and C.) Did you care? The reason I ask this is because a little anger is warranted because you took her man. She's obviously going to try to do anything possible to break you down or hurt your feelings, but she should be smart enough to know that it won't get him back. If he wants her, he'll come back...
