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do i really luv him? Posted on 09-12-2004
misty167

hey yall. ight this gon be kind of long so i hope yall have time to help me out. im a senior in highskool and i was in my first real relationship with a guy named q in the 10th grade . he was my first kiss and firt love. and we were togther for about 2 months. and at first our relationship was going good until i guess i messed it up cuz 1 minute i would stop talking to him for no reason and stuff and tell him he cant play ball. but then next minute i would kiss him and stuff. and he still was with me. and the first tim ehe told me he loved me was over the pone like after we were dating for 2 weeks. so of course i was like i dont feel the same. but anywa ner the end of our relationship i called him a *** cuz i was really mad at him. but then he started acting funny and then his bestfriend who liked me told me he was gon break up with me for another gurl if the the other gurl takes him back and when i asked him bout it of course he denied it. but needless to say he broke up with me and he said becuz i told him sumthin and so he forced his self to be not attracted to me anymmore.(aint that stupid) and come to find out he hooked back up with his ex girl and was telling her stuff like i said i was gon steal him away from her but me and her cool now. but i still love him and every boy im with i compare them to him and he would always talk to me and if i dont say anything to him like if he says hi and i ignore him he comes and hugs me and stuff and wont let me go until i say hi and on the forst day of skool i asked if he knew where my locker # was and he changed froom whatever direction he was going in and found my locker for me. and i want to be with him even though i dotn show it but im scared that he will try to play me again and i dont feel like going through that again. he was the first guy i cried over and stayed up late thinking about. but if yall did real all dis and got sum advice or comments please let me kno.. thanx
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KnowledgableTruth replied on 09-12-2004 11:00PM [Reply]
the best advice you could get...you are a senior in highschool and i'd take it that you are on your way to school...don't worry about it...if its meant to happen it'll happen but don't force it because you are about to leave and you are going to pump up something that might get your feelings hurt in another year because you will both be leaving and as freshmen...you get happy
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JsGyrl1110 replied on 09-12-2004 11:08PM [Reply]
KnowledgableTruth wrote:
the best advice you could get...you are a senior in highschool and i'd take it that you are on your way to school...don't worry about it...if its meant to happen it'll happen but don't force it because you are about to leave and you are going to pump up something that might get your feelings hurt in another year because you will both be leaving and as freshmen...you get happy
cosign on that....but yeah don't stress over this boy like knowledge said what will happen will happen. And the fact that he is your first love says it all of course you are going to compare other guys to him but you ill find someone who u feel even more strongly about...thats life and believe me its not easy but in the end what will be will be and I hope you are happy. Stay positive, keep ya head up, and God Bless-1LUV
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Princess LaRonda replied on 09-13-2004 02:25AM [Reply]
well....I personally feel as if you don't love him....and that you don't really know what love is YET (damn I used to hate when people told me that) a lot of that stuff mentioned was tooo CHILDISH even for a 10th grader....just stop talkin to a n!gga and tellin him he can't play ball....that sounds like something I would have said to my one of my boyfriends in the 3rd grade..that's silly Obviously both of you have a lot of growing to do....and right now wouldn't even be the time to get serious....senior year in high school either way...live learn and grow!
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Kinkee replied on 09-13-2004 12:23PM [Reply]
I also think that you should just chill and not worry about ole boy. You are a senior in high school. It is not a good idea to get all serious when you are about to go to college. There is a lot of growing up to do before you get into another relationship. And from what it seems, yall broke up over something immature and stupid. So if you love him enough, then let him go. If it was mean't to be then he will come back to you at some point in the future. Otherwise, just do you and enjoy your last year of high school. Keep your head up and good luck.
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replied on 09-13-2004 05:31PM [Reply]
thanx yall. and for those who said it sounds immature all those things that happened were in the 1oth grade and i dont kno bout yall but i was matture but not that matture in the 10th grade.(not tryna be rude just speaking my mind)
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KnowledgableTruth replied on 09-13-2004 05:39PM [Reply]
Don't sweat it...you just got to realize that when people get a certain age...they tend to act like they've never been young before...
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Princess LaRonda replied on 09-13-2004 08:29PM [Reply]
KnowledgableTruth wrote:
Don't sweat it...you just got to realize that when people get a certain age...they tend to act like they've never been young before...
LMAO oh whatever like i said yo I KNOW I USED TO HATE WHEN PEOPLE TOLD ME THAT but im sayin i know how i was in the 10 grade and that is childish ish.......thats really childish for the 9th...but its whatever
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KnowledgableTruth replied on 09-13-2004 09:54PM [Reply]
^^^^you are an exception...I call what you are doing is PEER COUNSELING....listening to your peers...
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