I can relate to your friend in how he feels about sharing his intimate relationship with someone he really care about. Not meaning to sound hypocritical, but if he really cared about you, then he would first listen to how you feel. Also, you may have not explained how you feel about this jeopardizing your relationship with him as a friend. However, you do not need to feel pressured to go to the next level with him. Besides, true friends have patience with each other and will look out for both interests and desires.
honey if you knew how patient he has been.....I admit I send mix signals because I want to but I just don't know ..... any other guy would have straight cursed me out by now He's really cool about it and see I didn't know exactly how he felt about me until this weekend I mean after the conversation he walked around like a big weight had been lifted off his sholders..... the only thing that's keeping me from doing it is the fear that I will want to be in a relationship and I don't think that he's ready for all that yet...he's just decided in the last year that the "player thing" is not for him, so he's still fighting with those "devils". With us being so close i know everything from his wild wild days to his calmer ones and I know that those wild wild days are playing a part in my hesitation as well.
That has to be very hard for him ...and you , because you don't know if you can trust giving your love to him :? . You still need to tell him how you feel. It's obvious he loves you, but I can understand you not wanting to risk your friendship over a serious relationship gone bad :evil: . By the way, can you see yourself with him for the rest of your life?
It's funny that I heard this song today and it was the first time that I really listened to the words....it's funny how things happen sometimes
Musiq Lyrics: Who knows Lyrics
Now that we came here to do
It means more to me than just a night
That we share
So make sure that you're prepared
Baby and know that love is not just something to do
It's the moment that transcends
Our physical into a more spiritual level of understanding
[Chorus]
And who knows
Somehow this night
Just might lead us into a place
Where our emotions can grow if we let them go
Cause who knows
What may happen
If we act on our attractions
And loose ourselves
Inside a world made for us
And no one else
Hey girl just let me love you
Now aint no need to be afraid
Cause I'll be as gentle as it takes
To provide you with the right amount of
Pleasure and pain I'll
Make sure that you feel alright
Even if it takes me all night
Cause the joy is all mine
When I know your satisfied
So lets keep giving all we got
[Chorus]
Listen, now I can see it in your eyes (yeah)
(I can handle whatever's on your mind)
That you want to baby just as bad as I do
(and girl I wanna give it to you)
Now if you can just set aside your fears
And just try to deal with what's going on with us right now
[Chorus]
Oh baby girl
Come on and let me love you
Yeah...those songs will get u. "Knockin Da Boots" gets me everytime. Oh wait...i've never been gotten. Nevamind. But if i was to be gotten, i'm sure that song would have sumthin to do with it :lol: . Watch out...love songs will get ya caught up. :wink:
It's funny that I heard this song today and it was the first time that I really listened to the words....it's funny how things happen sometimes
Musiq Lyrics: Who knows Lyrics
Now that we came here to do
It means more to me than just a night
That we share
So make sure that you're prepared
Baby and know that love is not just something to do
It's the moment that transcends
Our physical into a more spiritual level of understanding
[Chorus]
And who knows
Somehow this night
Just might lead us into a place
Where our emotions can grow if we let them go
Cause who knows
What may happen
If we act on our attractions
And loose ourselves
Inside a world made for us
And no one else
Hey girl just let me love you
Now aint no need to be afraid
Cause I'll be as gentle as it takes
To provide you with the right amount of
Pleasure and pain I'll
Make sure that you feel alright
Even if it takes me all night
Cause the joy is all mine
When I know your satisfied
So lets keep giving all we got
[Chorus]
Listen, now I can see it in your eyes (yeah)
(I can handle whatever's on your mind)
That you want to baby just as bad as I do
(and girl I wanna give it to you)
Now if you can just set aside your fears
And just try to deal with what's going on with us right now
[Chorus]
Oh baby girl
Come on and let me love you
However, you do not need to feel pressured to go to the next level with him. Besides, true friends have patience with each other and will look out for both interests and desires.
He's really cool about it and see I didn't know exactly how he felt about me until this weekend I mean after the conversation he walked around like a big weight had been lifted off his sholders..... the only thing that's keeping me from doing it is the fear that I will want to be in a relationship and I don't think that he's ready for all that yet...he's just decided in the last year that the "player thing" is not for him, so he's still fighting with those "devils". With us being so close i know everything from his wild wild days to his calmer ones and I know that those wild wild days are playing a part in my hesitation as well.
