so yes though i may be cynical at times, I am a complete people pleaser and hate to say no....so anyways this guy has really been annoying me, I dont like him physically nor his personality, he wants to spend time with me, i keep avoiding him by disconnecting my phone, but I keep seeing him on campus and always make dumb excuses for my actions....for some reason i cant tell him "im not interested in you" because he is such a nice person, no one bit of sense but nice...... and he cant take a hint....so is there any way I can gently let him down...because today he tried to put his arm around me and I moved away quickly to get away from his arm and guys who know me know I dont like to be touched all random if im not feeling you and it almost made me want to curse him out..and I dont want to hurt him that badly ya know...so are there any gental ways for "spesho" people who have no common sense?
U just gonna have to suck up your kindness, and let him know the deal. I mean point blank. Snap on him, or something where he thinks "I don't even wanna talk to her anymore". Just be real and let him know the deal
ummm write him a letter to tell him how you feel (ha ha)
no just really tell him you think he's nice..talk about his good qualities and everything but just tell him you're not interested
dang, i have no idea. I have that whole "no" complex as well. Dang Shoya, "all ya gotta do is say yes". hee hee. :lol:
But naw, i have that bad too. I hate to hurt people's feelings. But hey, u can't win em all right? Unless u wanna keep gettin annoyed, at some point u just gotta be real. Just let him know that he's cool peoples, but as far as yall kickin it beyond a "hey homie how ya doin, good to see ya on tha yard" type level...it ain't happenin. Then again...it's much easier said than done. Ummm it got it. Next time he sees u, just start twitchin and blinkin ya eyes really quickly and kick a foot or swing a arm every few seconds. That oughta work :wink: :lol:
I seem to be going through the same thing :lol: Some people don't get the hints that I be dropping! I try hard not to be mean and so I'll give the number thinking they won't call, but to my surprise they do and I'm stuck with 15 new guys calling my phone.................. I don't know who they are where I met them and if they were cute or not. I seem like the crazy one now!!!!!!!!!!!!
