That is kinda messed up with the visitation and everything. I guess they just dont want to have like big **** in the dorms at least that way they can claim that the school aint responsible. But like you said we are adults and so I would figure that most of us are smart enough to not be bonin all the time. But then again it is a lot of fun isnt it? ...
It really doesn't matter to me. I mean if I do meet a guy friend at school, I would like for him to be able to stop by every now and then. But my boyfriend will be in Seattle, WA, so guy visitors are really not in my list of priorities. focusing on graduating from college is. Shoot, all the money College cost, I don't want to be sidetracked!!
I can visit them out side the dorm, but my point is that I'm adult so you should trust me to make responsible choices. They will not have me sidetracked cuz I know my main focus. To me it just seems like they don't trust us to be adults.