That's not true homie. It's the "sensitive" ish that gets the cooch son. Whether you're lying or you're honest, that sensitive stuff will get them. However, there's a line between "caring about your female's feelings" sensitive, and "being a ****" sensitive.
If you are a pushover, you will get PUSHED OVER. Girls want someone who's sensitive, it just so happens that a lot of dudes, maybe even most who are sensitive are pushovers b/c they are overly sensitive. And most girls in our race and generation don't want a man they can just tell what to do and shove around. That's why you see the "thugs" or "****" as you called them freaking every girl in the city. B/c the girl KNOWS that they aren't ****, and she BELIEVES that they actually care about her. If you're getting pushed over, it's b/c u are simply a push-over homes.
My advice to you, MAN UP.