It all started freshman year first semester when i liked this guy. He was in most of my classes and we alwayz studied together and alwayz had long converstions on the phone. We clicked well But I never told him I liked him. I don't know if he liked me. I told my friends about him and they thought he was a great guy,he looked good, and had a great head on his shoulders. But later on i found out he had a girl...so i called it quits on trying to like him anymore. I never told him that i liked him.
Its my junior year...and we never really talked like we used to....I still really like him...but in my mind i was still tryna get over him becuz i thought he was still with his girl ...but anyway i ended up introducing him to my friends for the first time at a little party. After a while I noticed he started flirting with one of them. So later on down the road... my friend comes up to me and ask me if it was okay for her to talk to him. She said that he has been calling her and trying to talk to her ...so i guess she wanted my consent. Because i was a caring person I told her she could stupid mistake)....so i couldn't handle it and i just told her to stop talking to him....She got mad and said you need to tell him you like him... Any way...he has another girlfriend now and he seems happy. But i still never told him that I liked him(feels kinda childish)..i don't think i ever will tell him. We are still great friends though...Now i am talking to someone..and i am totally over the other guy :wink: Now that i think about i think i was a little shelfish...
Do you think I should tell him that i liked him...or just leave it alone?
Did any of you run into a situation where the guy you liked ended up liking one of you friends?...If so do tell
i think you should tell him...even if you dont "like him anymore." It's best to tell them and find out how they feel about you, then not knowing if they couldve liked you back but was too scared to say something....If I like someone I tell them and even if they're not feelin me like that,I'm happy knowing then living my life wondering what couldve happened between us if i told them how i felt...
was that clear enough???? i dunno
Well girl, as far as telling him goes...i don't really know about that one. It would be different if someone else wasn't in the picture now, but he is. And u have to ask yourself, "would i be okay with him going back to some chick that he claims to not even like anymore and tell her that he used to like her, just to see what would happen?" I mean, it just seems like someone in that predicament is either A) looking for an ego booster to see if the person used to like them or still likes them or B)trying to see what could potentially happen between them. Now if ya look for A, that's your bizniz mama. And well, if you're after B, that could be an episode of drama just waitin to happen seeing as how this guy has a girl, and u claim to be talkin to someone as well.
As for the guy and the friend thing. Hmmm...i don't think i've run into that one. Any girl that is a TRUE friend of mine, she knows about the guys i like or i'm feelin. Them hookin up wouldn't even be up in the air cuz me and my real friends just don't do that. It's one of those unspoken rules. Now, as for homiez, associates, or females that i just sort of "know", well if she knew i liked him and went out with him, i wouldn't really care cuz he ain't my man and she isn't close enuff to me to really consider my feelings in a situation like that.