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How much is too much? Posted on 01-09-2005
unconditional

I don't get it, maybe someone can help me out. How much time is too much time to want from the one you are with? It seems like it is always never enough for any guy I'm with or I give them what they ask for and they still cheat
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 01-09-2005 12:50AM [Reply]
Ummm, maybe you shouldnt give them what they want.They make look at that as a sign of weakness and just a reason to walk all over you.It's one thing to be a giving person but don't spread yourself thin.Relationships are give and take.
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Kinkee replied on 01-09-2005 03:47PM [Reply]
That is just something that yall have to discuss. No one wants to be smothered. Allow him some time alone and you the same. Relationships should be 50/50. Treating the other as they wish to be treated.
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Sweet_Girl replied on 01-10-2005 12:11PM [Reply]
Okay, I can say I have been in the same situation where I would make time for my friend but he would not make as much time for me. I got to the point that I just gave him the space that he wanted. You see sometimes we have to be careful because we can give to much and it is not returned. In this case you have to evaluate the relationship because the both of you all should put time and effort into it not just one person. If one person is putting more time and there is no logical reason than it is not worth all the trouble.
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In Rod We Trust replied on 01-10-2005 02:12PM [Reply]
Kinkee wrote:
That is just something that yall have to discuss. No one wants to be smothered. Allow him some time alone and you the same. Relationships should be 50/50. Treating the other as they wish to be treated.
concur.................
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Blutifully Human replied on 01-11-2005 02:36AM [Reply]
There is no standard amount of time that someone should spend with their mate. Every individual is different and two mature adults should be able to discuss something like that and work it out without one of the parties resorting to nonsense. The thing that stuck out to me from your whole post was this statement...
unconditional wrote:
or I give them what they ask for and they still cheat
That is unacceptable. Even if he's punkin about not gettin enough time from you, that is no excuse to cheat. And don't think you have to surround your whole life around a man and his wants just to make him stick around. Cuz guess what? When he's up and gone, you're left with nothing becuz you him your everything. "Never make a person your priority, when you are only their option."
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