yeah im with them, just let it continue to happen naturally, soon as you start worrying and stressing him, things change and they go bad really fast so just continue to let it flow and good luck with it
First, I think you should see how he feels about the situation and just go with the flow.
agree...
just try not to scare him away...>>>(tisha)
oh no...it aint like that. I know that are feelings for each other are VERY mutual...we have talked about how we feel about each other openly, so he is very aware of how I feel, as do I with him....its more so a matter of how do I know if Im becoming attached to him too soon...cause even tho Ive let much of my guard down with him...part of it is still up cause it seems like this is all happening kinda fast even tho we both clearly told each other we would take our time in all this. But whatever, Ima stop worrying and just go with the flow cause things are going extremely well so far...
Wow Mila, i would have never seen this one comin. Guess you're lettin go of the of the **** card huh ? Anywho, u know how i am, so like it's already been said before, i think u should definately pray about it, seek some guidance, and use your heart AS WELL as your brain. U gotta discern if what you're feeling is truly love, or just strong infatuation. Cuz sometimes we tend to get the two confused.
More than anything, try not to stress over it or overthink the situation. Just live. If it's meant to be, it's going to come to past regardless.
Wow Mila, i would have never seen this one comin. Guess you're lettin go of the of the **** card huh ? Anywho, u know how i am, so like it's already been said before, i think u should definately pray about it, seek some guidance, and use your heart AS WELL as your brain. U gotta discern if what you're feeling is truly love, or just strong infatuation. Cuz sometimes we tend to get the two confused.
More than anything, try not to stress over it or overthink the situation. Just live. If it's meant to be, it's going to come to past regardless.
I say try to slow things down a bit cuz you just started talking to him in December. Of course everything is gonna be great in the beginning because its a fresh, new experience for you, but don't rush into anything (whether it was a brotha you met on AOL or not). Also, not to rain on your parade, but be careful with those internet peeps. About two Sunday's ago a guy from my hometown was robbed, beaten, shot and murdered by a guy he met online. He called his folks to tell them that he was meeting the guy, but after a few days passed they hadn't heard from him so they called the Houston police. The cops found him in his apartment the following Wednesday. I'm not trying to scare you, just be careful and protect yourself, physically and emotionally.
^^^^ Oh yeah, I understand completely...I dont ever typically meet people off the net....but like I said...I met him at a party where me and a whole bunch of my friends were at so they all saw a good look of him, and I know how dangerous meetin peeps off the net is...thats why if I do it....Im never alone and its with a lotta people around...and he is a college student here in Tallahasse, not like some old **** man or whatever...but I appreciate all the feedback. :wink:
? Anywho, u know how i am, so like it's already been said before, i think u should definately pray about it, seek some guidance, and use your heart AS WELL as your brain. U gotta discern if what you're feeling is truly love, or just strong infatuation. Cuz sometimes we tend to get the two confused.
More than anything, try not to stress over it or overthink the situation. Just live. If it's meant to be, it's going to come to past regardless. 
