How many females truely believe in "The Friend Rule"? Y'all kno, the one where if ya best friend goes with somebody, u can't go with them, because ya friend might still have feelings for that person. Well, I wanna kno this, because this rule is a bigg issue that causes plenty of arguements, when in reality it was set to keep down arguments.
I have a friend that isn't talking to her best friend anymore, becuz the girl was messing around with her (my friend) exboyfriend. The point is that the best friend knew that the girl still like the boy, but when he started messing with her, she sat back and let it happen, make it so bad, the best friend has a boyfriend.
Soooo, wut do y'all think?!?!?! :arrow:
I say that the rule is good in sum cases, because it keeps the friendship, but if u got a friend dat dun went with errybody in da whole daymn world, then u can't help but to break that rule. But in all actuality, that rule is a load of crap, because the person that u said u won't go with (becuz of the rule) juss may be ur soul mate. U can't always abide by that rule. But that's just my opinion. :arrow:
i'm not one to follow them kind of "rules" anyway. if the girl still had feelins for the dude why she break up with him anyway. she shouldn't be upset because her friend is messin around with him. she should have held on to him....
I say that the rule is good in sum cases, because it keeps the friendship, but if u got a friend dat dun went with errybody in da whole daymn world, then u can't help but to break that rule. But in all actuality, that rule is a load of crap, because the person that u said u won't go with (becuz of the rule) juss may be ur soul mate. U can't always abide by that rule. But that's just my opinion. :arrow:
In high school, something similar happened to me. I still had feelings for the dude and my friend chose not to holla back at him. Now that I am in college the word friend isn't in my vocabulary. Fucc them. But I won't take their sloppy seconds either.
i dont think that rule really applies if your friend and the guy dated some time back and wasnt all that serious, or if yall hooked up before knowing that he was your friends ex....anywayz i prolly wouldnt even hook up with my friends ex in those cases, but if i knew dude like that before they went out, than i can see that happening...
I agree :arrow: but either way I wouldn't mess with a **** my friends messed with (the sloppy seconds thing...got 2 much pride) unless you feeling dude and your friend don't have problems with it then what the hell?
Yea...Ima strong believer in the friend rule. I feel like if you dont mess with ur friends ex and vice versa it will keep ish drama free and will not allow for any miscommunications on eveybodys part. Me and my friend was just talkin bout this the other day. I feel like even if I was messin with a dude who was never my man but I was feelin him for a long time and we stopped talking she still shouldnt mess with him cause that was somebody I was involved with...even if it wasnt on a relationship level. I think its most important to know how u and ur friends feel on the issue so in case u may start feelin her ex....you know where she would stand if yall were to talk. But in a nutshell, thats how I feel.
>>>>>>>>( if Monte and Demmeri can have a " babe of the month " so can I. ) 8)
I definintely believe in the friend rule. My ex boyfriend broke that rule on so many levels......We broke up then he started messing with my friend......who was his best friend's ex! Now he messed EVERYTHING up because I wasnt talkin to him no more and neither was his friends. All he had was his lil yeak.
( if Monte and Demmeri can have a " babe of the month " so can I. ) 8) 
