i dont know about yall but letting someone go who u really love is hard ..especially when that person is taken but also wants you..im just going through this..can someone help a sister out? He was my moon guiding me thru the dark without him im lost! :cry:
I understand your situation. In the end, I got hurt because he wouldn't leave her for me. So I was like if he crushin me while he with her, how is he going to do me? I know it is going to be hard, but you will heal over time. Then at the thought of losing my current boyfriend, I bout drove myself crazy. So I know how you feel, but you have to let him go. If you don't he is going to continue to hurt you.
he told me he aint gone break up with her cuz he luv her too...but its like he is somethin else i lost mah big V 2 him and ima soph and he a senior his girl is also a soph she will have to deal wit dat but anyways she know he cheated on her wit me for 2weeks and still went back but she still dont know he was still cheatin and i meet her too..
I'm back. . .. girl. I know this from experience so trust me. If he cares about you like he says he does then he would be with you instead of her. But he's not, so he doesn't. Don't be blind. Obviously your feelings are 3rd on his list. His feelings come first to him (lyin cheatin **** :evil, his girlfriend's feelins come second to his (since he doesn't want to let her go), and you come in last. Is that really where you want to be, no. Drop him. It **** cause he was your first which means he has a big part of you and holds the key to your heart. Trust me, even though it hurts to end it, it will be even worse if you let him drag you and your heart along. Because that is what he will do "he who loves the least controlls the relationship". It is obvious that your feelings for him are stronger than his are for you. So don't do this to yourself girl. Cut him off now and fast, like a bandaid. It's going to hurt like hell but you need to just charge it to the game and move on. Refer to the quote below and FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL PUT YOU FIRST!
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, his girlfriend's feelins come second to his (since he doesn't want to let her go), and you come in last. Is that really where you want to be, no. Drop him. It **** cause he was your first which means he has a big part of you and holds the key to your heart. Trust me, even though it hurts to end it, it will be even worse if you let him drag you and your heart along. Because that is what he will do "he who loves the least controlls the relationship". It is 
